Anonymous wrote:OP, ask Jeff to move this to the forum for special needs or AAP. Posters there are really well equipped to give advice on next steps for gifted kids. A neuro psych eval is a good next step it seems, to get a really good sense of your child's intellectual range.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man, there are some bitter, jealous people on this thread lol!
-np
What a pathetic attempt at starting drama.
Try not being so blatantly obvious, troll.![]()
I wasn't at all. I'm being totally serious. My child is below grade level. I clicked on the thread because I was impressed.
Maybe you should spend more of your time supplementing your child at home if they're falling behind, rather than hanging out on DCUM.
If my kid were below grade level, the last place I'd be at 7pm on a Saturday night is trolling on the internet.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
What a bunch of jealous suspicious types on here.
My children are similar to yours and are lucky to be in a gifted program in this area.
Be aware that testing several grades ahead does not necessarily mean that your child could do the whole curriculum for that upper grade. My son was reading at a 12th grade level since mid-elementary, but that did not mean he could have been parachuted in a 12th grade literature class at 9 years old!
OP, do you know whether your child's school could accommodate this by either letting him or her work on his own during class, or sending him (for math) to a different grade?
Alternatively, you can explore private school options which might be more accommodating, through smaller class sizes, or think about homeschooling your child.
The first thing you can do, however, is further investigate your child's abilities by doing a full neuropsychological evaluation.
Good luck - it's tough but exciting to have such a child!
NP here.
I haven't read any overly critical/snarky comments before mine, most were helpful & a few others were more on the inquisitive side of how the OP came to her conclusion about her child's percentile, tiredness, etc.
However, YOUR post says everything about YOU & how YOU perceived them. It's clear that you are hyper sensitive & believe you are being judged by others when it comes to your own brilliant child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man, there are some bitter, jealous people on this thread lol!
-np
What a pathetic attempt at starting drama.
Try not being so blatantly obvious, troll.![]()
I wasn't at all. I'm being totally serious. My child is below grade level. I clicked on the thread because I was impressed.
Anonymous wrote:
What a bunch of jealous suspicious types on here.
My children are similar to yours and are lucky to be in a gifted program in this area.
Be aware that testing several grades ahead does not necessarily mean that your child could do the whole curriculum for that upper grade. My son was reading at a 12th grade level since mid-elementary, but that did not mean he could have been parachuted in a 12th grade literature class at 9 years old!
OP, do you know whether your child's school could accommodate this by either letting him or her work on his own during class, or sending him (for math) to a different grade?
Alternatively, you can explore private school options which might be more accommodating, through smaller class sizes, or think about homeschooling your child.
The first thing you can do, however, is further investigate your child's abilities by doing a full neuropsychological evaluation.
Good luck - it's tough but exciting to have such a child!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Man, there are some bitter, jealous people on this thread lol!
-np
What a pathetic attempt at starting drama.
Try not being so blatantly obvious, troll.![]()
Anonymous wrote:Man, there are some bitter, jealous people on this thread lol!
-np
Anonymous wrote:Some answers:
Kid was part of a pre school research study, plus school testing since pre k, so lots of tests already.
Yes, the school testing does provide current grade equivalent.
Reading test includes comprehension, vocab etc. It's not just a decoding exercise.
Yes, child is currently doing (simple) algebra and plenty of math beyond my ability to recall.
Doesn't complain about being bored. Reads constantly (and yes, lots of non fiction - will happily read encyclopedias cover to cover). Does math for fun (long multiplication, calculating area, square root etc) without worksheet
s or homework. Asks lots of questions, sops up info like a sponge. Generally I think is doing just fine and doesn't need any extra support but sometimes I wonder if we should be doing more to challenge our child.
Thanks for the suggestions.
Anonymous wrote:
I was unaware that reading levels were evident at the park. Does your kid seem super smart while doing the monkey bars?
Anonymous wrote:Some answers:
Kid was part of a pre school research study, plus school testing since pre k, so lots of tests already.
Yes, the school testing does provide current grade equivalent.
Reading test includes comprehension, vocab etc. It's not just a decoding exercise.
Yes, child is currently doing (simple) algebra and plenty of math beyond my ability to recall.
Doesn't complain about being bored. Reads constantly (and yes, lots of non fiction - will happily read encyclopedias cover to cover). Does math for fun (long multiplication, calculating area, square root etc) without worksheets or homework. Asks lots of questions, sops up info like a sponge. Generally I think is doing just fine and doesn't need any extra support but sometimes I wonder if we should be doing more to challenge our child.
Thanks for the suggestions.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP - What you will find is that A LOT of kids in this area test at the 99% percentile and are 5 grades or more above the national average, particularly in "reading," which is kind of a nebulous topic.
Because there are a lot of smart, high achieving, kids in the area, your child likely has a peer group of similar kids. Nothing you have told us suggests profound giftedness, or a need for anything other than normal support for a bright kid.
Not been even close to my experience. Where are all these other kids? They are not at my child's school and I haven't found them at the playground, summer camps or in extra curriculars. It would be great to meet them. Kid would love a same age friend to share books and interests with instead of much older kids.
OP.
Anonymous wrote:Or read "the drama of the gifted child". Good luck.