Anonymous wrote:We all have issues but both would be tough for a long term relationship:

Hi: I'm Jen. I have been divorced twice and have three small children. Ben is the love of my life and you will always be compared to him.

Hi: I'm Ben. I have three small kids, a number of flop movies, and issues with gambling and substance abuse.

Anonymous wrote:I have this theory that Ben Affleck is pretty obviously a self involved narcissistic hot mess. People like that do not generally do well in long term relationships or in situations where they have to give to others.

I think from both his relatonships with the Jennifers he was utterly bored and felt suffocated. These women were clearly gaga about him and were all in. He liked the chase but once he had them wrapped around his finger, he got bored.

His body language/videos with both J.Lo and J. Garner are painful to watch because they are obviously gushing over him and he can't be bothered.









I get the sense that he thinks he's this deep intellectual and J.Lo is too low class for him.

J. Garner too mumsy and middle class. She is safe and predictable and adores him. But he also adores himself!





I think he probably felt the most invest with Gwyneth Paltrow. She is equally as self absorbed and actually during their tiem together did the push pull he usually pulls on women.






Gwyneth has never lacked self esteem. She thinks very highly of herself and can hold her own around him and even dare put him in his place! Apparently she really tried to class him up and guide and direct his artistic success. From the way he talks about her its obvious he holds her in high regard. For once he was not good enough for HER.

Both the Jennifers were gaga for him and he treated them like dirt.

Anonymous wrote:I have this theory that Ben Affleck is pretty obviously a self involved narcissistic hot mess. People like that do not generally do well in long term relationships or in situations where they have to give to others.

I think from both his relatonships with the Jennifers he was utterly bored and felt suffocated. These women were clearly gaga about him and were all in. He liked the chase but once he had them wrapped around his finger, he got bored.

His body language/videos with both J.Lo and J. Garner are painful to watch because they are obviously gushing over him and he can't be bothered.









I get the sense that he thinks he's this deep intellectual and J.Lo is too low class for him.

J. Garner too mumsy and middle class. She is safe and predictable and adores him. But he also adores himself!





I think he probably felt the most invest with Gwyneth Paltrow. She is equally as self absorbed and actually during their tiem together did the push pull he usually pulls on women.






Gwyneth has never lacked self esteem. She thinks very highly of herself and can hold her own around him and even dare put him in his place! Apparently she really tried to class him up and guide and direct his artistic success. From the way he talks about her its obvious he holds her in high regard. For once he was not good enough for HER.

Both the Jennifers were gaga for him and he treated them like dirt.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer - needs someone stable, an older (50s) wealthy man not in the entertainment industry
Ben - needs some excitement in his life, someone younger, non-traditional and independent. Scarlett Johansson, maybe Rihanna. But they shouldn't get serious. He should never get married again.

Why would a wealthy, younger celeb want an old, bloated, substance abuser? Except for the ones who like dealing with losers, like Katy Perry.

Those women aren't interested in LTRs. And Ben Affleck cleans up well when he wants to. Plus he's apparently well-endowed.

Anonymous wrote:Jennifer - needs someone stable, an older (50s) wealthy man not in the entertainment industry
Ben - needs some excitement in his life, someone younger, non-traditional and independent. Scarlett Johansson, maybe Rihanna. But they shouldn't get serious. He should never get married again.

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.

Anonymous wrote:He looked really happy with Gwyneth.