Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 13:03     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
I wish my husband wore flip flops and a backward hat.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 13:01     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:Backwards is better than a visor!!


Oh yes. Or sunglasses on their head. Boy I hate that look.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:50     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:I wish my husband would give up his Teva's. We aren't camping and this isnt a party at his frat house either. He is late 40s. I HATE them.


To me, Teva's don't scream frat boy. Flip flops do.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:44     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
I wish my husband would give up his Teva's. We aren't camping and this isnt a party at his frat house either. He is late 40s. I HATE them.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:27     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Jesus. Backwards hats. Long underwear to do garbage duty. All I want is my husband to put his phone down and look me in the eyes while I'm talking to him. He can wear anything (or nothing) while doing this.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:24     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:To me, there is nothing sexier than my husband wearing a baseball hat. Even more so when it's backwards. I don't get the issue.


+1 My DH is middle aged and as far from a frat boy as you can get. He can get it with the hat to the back.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:21     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH just can't seem to grow out of his frat boy days and must still think he's super cool when wears a backwards baseball cap, which is all the time. I think it's ridiculous for a 30-something, but I also don't want to be accused of controlling his wardrobe choices. Still, I think it looks so silly and immature. Is this a battle worth fighting?


Hmm, I wonder what his complaints are about you Ms. Perfect?

You know he has plenty of them... and they're probably WAY more related to character defects, than a stupid baseball cap worn backwards.

Although, he probably realizes that characteristics such as tolerance, acceptance consideration & kindness far outweighs being superficial, shallow, judgmental & sanctimonious.

It's ironic that you described his fashion choice & "silly & immature" because that's exactly how you come across in this post. You sound extremely immature, insecure & yes, silly & you certainly seem to care FAR too much about what other people think of you (not of him, of YOU).
Clearly you're worried about what other people will think of YOU for allowing him to dress in such a way.
I msean, why else would you care so much about something so insignificant, especially if it makes him happy?

A word in maturity, unconditional love & compromise... if this is your only complaint about him & he's generally a good guy, then YOU'RE the one who should be taking a hard look in the mirror & getting a character makeover.

Pick better battles.

First world problems, ffs.


Yikes, someone needs a chill pill today. Or another cup of coffee.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 12:17     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
Nothing wrong with it. It has nothing to do with being a "frat boy". Popped collars and multiple collared shirts worn at the same time = frat boy.

Sometimes its a comfort thing. Sometimes I need to keep the sun off my neck.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 11:25     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Backwards is better than a visor!!
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 11:24     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH just can't seem to grow out of his frat boy days and must still think he's super cool when wears a backwards baseball cap, which is all the time. I think it's ridiculous for a 30-something, but I also don't want to be accused of controlling his wardrobe choices. Still, I think it looks so silly and immature. Is this a battle worth fighting?


Hmm, I wonder what his complaints are about you Ms. Perfect?

You know he has plenty of them... and they're probably WAY more related to character defects, than a stupid baseball cap worn backwards.

Although, he probably realizes that characteristics such as tolerance, acceptance consideration & kindness far outweighs being superficial, shallow, judgmental & sanctimonious.

It's ironic that you described his fashion choice & "silly & immature" because that's exactly how you come across in this post. You sound extremely immature, insecure & yes, silly & you certainly seem to care FAR too much about what other people think of you (not of him, of YOU).
Clearly you're worried about what other people will think of YOU for allowing him to dress in such a way.
I msean, why else would you care so much about something so insignificant, especially if it makes him happy?

A word in maturity, unconditional love & compromise... if this is your only complaint about him & he's generally a good guy, then YOU'RE the one who should be taking a hard look in the mirror & getting a character makeover.

Pick better battles.

First world problems, ffs.



Umm... excuse me... was anybody looking for this?

I found this sizzling, shredded mic dropped on the floor.


Boom goes the dynamite!

Great post, pp!
What you said x1000
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 11:16     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:Show him this and maybe he will stop...




Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 11:15     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
I love it when my DH turns his around. He doesn't do it all the time, just once in a while. I totally fell for him in college when he did this, so maybe it just reminds me of when we fell for each other, but whatever it is I hope he doesn't stop any time soon!
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 11:13     Subject: DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:DH just can't seem to grow out of his frat boy days and must still think he's super cool when wears a backwards baseball cap, which is all the time. I think it's ridiculous for a 30-something, but I also don't want to be accused of controlling his wardrobe choices. Still, I think it looks so silly and immature. Is this a battle worth fighting?


Hmm, I wonder what his complaints are about you Ms. Perfect?

You know he has plenty of them... and they're probably WAY more related to character defects, than a stupid baseball cap worn backwards.

Although, he probably realizes that characteristics such as tolerance, acceptance consideration & kindness far outweighs being superficial, shallow, judgmental & sanctimonious.

It's ironic that you described his fashion choice & "silly & immature" because that's exactly how you come across in this post. You sound extremely immature, insecure & yes, silly & you certainly seem to care FAR too much about what other people think of you (not of him, of YOU).
Clearly you're worried about what other people will think of YOU for allowing him to dress in such a way.
I msean, why else would you care so much about something so insignificant, especially if it makes him happy?

A word in maturity, unconditional love & compromise... if this is your only complaint about him & he's generally a good guy, then YOU'RE the one who should be taking a hard look in the mirror & getting a character makeover.

Pick better battles.

First world problems, ffs.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 10:26     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Damn! Paul Ryan look good!


I just threw up in my mouth.


Don't judge, some people have a chicken fetish. Chicken legs, chicken face, chicken when standing up for what he believes.
Anonymous
Post 05/12/2017 10:17     Subject: Re:DH's backwards baseball cap
Anonymous wrote:Damn! Paul Ryan look good!


I just threw up in my mouth.