Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One smallish purse. Bring a small washable tote with gym clothes on monday. Shoes and everything else stay at work. Bring it home on friday.
Bring lunch one or twice a week.
I Work from home on fridays so i bring my laptop. It's super small and goes in a lean backpack.
Honestly, when i see women with giant sized totes plus purses plus laptop bags leaving work every day, it comes across to me that they're inefficient martyrs. Clean your fucking purse out; you're just hauling a lot of junk around with you. And do you really need to bring a huge stack of files and your laptop home every night? And if you do, why don't they fit in your giant tote bag that is also overflowing with shit? I started asking colleagues (subtly) to find out if i was missing something about why they took so much stuff to and from work, and several admitted they're lives were messy, they rarely did work at night, but always left work with intentions to tackle a ton of stuff. The men in my line of work are not hauling around anything except gym bags. If they need to login from home, they login from a home computer or just respond on iPhone or iPad. The highly successful women in my line of work are not schlepping around with overflowing totes and lap top bags, either.
Gym bag, and lunch bag and nursing stuff -- sure no problem.
You're pretty judgy. I was too, pre-long commute, big work responsibilities, and kids. I bring three bags: one for laptop and files (I telework often and need them at home), standard purse (wallet, badge, etc), tote with pumping stuff, food, and makeup. Happy Easter to all!
I am the same judgy. I see men waking into the office unencumbered, and some women walking in like they BARELY made it. Doesn't instill confidence. It's nuanced and not right, but real. I made a decision 10 years ago to only have a laptop bag and a purse. That's it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One smallish purse. Bring a small washable tote with gym clothes on monday. Shoes and everything else stay at work. Bring it home on friday.
Bring lunch one or twice a week.
I Work from home on fridays so i bring my laptop. It's super small and goes in a lean backpack.
Honestly, when i see women with giant sized totes plus purses plus laptop bags leaving work every day, it comes across to me that they're inefficient martyrs. Clean your fucking purse out; you're just hauling a lot of junk around with you. And do you really need to bring a huge stack of files and your laptop home every night? And if you do, why don't they fit in your giant tote bag that is also overflowing with shit? I started asking colleagues (subtly) to find out if i was missing something about why they took so much stuff to and from work, and several admitted they're lives were messy, they rarely did work at night, but always left work with intentions to tackle a ton of stuff. The men in my line of work are not hauling around anything except gym bags. If they need to login from home, they login from a home computer or just respond on iPhone or iPad. The highly successful women in my line of work are not schlepping around with overflowing totes and lap top bags, either.
Gym bag, and lunch bag and nursing stuff -- sure no problem.
You're pretty judgy. I was too, pre-long commute, big work responsibilities, and kids. I bring three bags: one for laptop and files (I telework often and need them at home), standard purse (wallet, badge, etc), tote with pumping stuff, food, and makeup. Happy Easter to all!
Anonymous wrote:One smallish purse. Bring a small washable tote with gym clothes on monday. Shoes and everything else stay at work. Bring it home on friday.
Bring lunch one or twice a week.
I Work from home on fridays so i bring my laptop. It's super small and goes in a lean backpack.
Honestly, when i see women with giant sized totes plus purses plus laptop bags leaving work every day, it comes across to me that they're inefficient martyrs. Clean your fucking purse out; you're just hauling a lot of junk around with you. And do you really need to bring a huge stack of files and your laptop home every night? And if you do, why don't they fit in your giant tote bag that is also overflowing with shit? I started asking colleagues (subtly) to find out if i was missing something about why they took so much stuff to and from work, and several admitted they're lives were messy, they rarely did work at night, but always left work with intentions to tackle a ton of stuff. The men in my line of work are not hauling around anything except gym bags. If they need to login from home, they login from a home computer or just respond on iPhone or iPad. The highly successful women in my line of work are not schlepping around with overflowing totes and lap top bags, either.
Gym bag, and lunch bag and nursing stuff -- sure no problem.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One smallish purse. Bring a small washable tote with gym clothes on monday. Shoes and everything else stay at work. Bring it home on friday.
Bring lunch one or twice a week.
I Work from home on fridays so i bring my laptop. It's super small and goes in a lean backpack.
Honestly, when i see women with giant sized totes plus purses plus laptop bags leaving work every day, it comes across to me that they're inefficient martyrs. Clean your fucking purse out; you're just hauling a lot of junk around with you. And do you really need to bring a huge stack of files and your laptop home every night? And if you do, why don't they fit in your giant tote bag that is also overflowing with shit? I started asking colleagues (subtly) to find out if i was missing something about why they took so much stuff to and from work, and several admitted they're lives were messy, they rarely did work at night, but always left work with intentions to tackle a ton of stuff. The men in my line of work are not hauling around anything except gym bags. If they need to login from home, they login from a home computer or just respond on iPhone or iPad. The highly successful women in my line of work are not schlepping around with overflowing totes and lap top bags, either.
Gym bag, and lunch bag and nursing stuff -- sure no problem.
Why do you care so much what other people carry if they aren't complaining? Weird.
I carry a large tote. I have a health issue and have to have a variety of meds with me 24/7 and some are not small (shots). I also like to have basics like hand sanitizer, phone, keys, chapstick, lunch, laptop, headphones, maybe hat and gloves in winter, sunglasses other seasons. I like having my stuff and don't mind carrying it but I am not a weakling so it doesn't bother me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:None, but I also don't have kids. I carry my phone + a small designer card case. One card case has a coin purse in the middle and holds some cash, the other literally just holds my DL and a card or two. I hate carrying anything more, nor do I really have a need to.
Lipstick? Tampons?
Hairbrush? Keys?
Anonymous wrote:One smallish purse. Bring a small washable tote with gym clothes on monday. Shoes and everything else stay at work. Bring it home on friday.
Bring lunch one or twice a week.
I Work from home on fridays so i bring my laptop. It's super small and goes in a lean backpack.
Honestly, when i see women with giant sized totes plus purses plus laptop bags leaving work every day, it comes across to me that they're inefficient martyrs. Clean your fucking purse out; you're just hauling a lot of junk around with you. And do you really need to bring a huge stack of files and your laptop home every night? And if you do, why don't they fit in your giant tote bag that is also overflowing with shit? I started asking colleagues (subtly) to find out if i was missing something about why they took so much stuff to and from work, and several admitted they're lives were messy, they rarely did work at night, but always left work with intentions to tackle a ton of stuff. The men in my line of work are not hauling around anything except gym bags. If they need to login from home, they login from a home computer or just respond on iPhone or iPad. The highly successful women in my line of work are not schlepping around with overflowing totes and lap top bags, either.
Gym bag, and lunch bag and nursing stuff -- sure no problem.