Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 22:39     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

It doesnt matter if WE would be Ok with it OP because YOU were not Ok with it. He had to poo (this can't always wait) and you left the room and all went well so why are you still dwelling on it and posting here for opinions?
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 22:12     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

Wow, wifwy, get a grip and get over it. One toilet and the queen of sheeba expect him to cramp up and suffer instead? Glad I'm not married to you but even gladder you are willing to examine your behaviour choice, that's personal growth.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 22:02     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

DH pooped in our maternity/recovery room (whatever it's called) bathroom. It was awful. The retched stench stayed for 3 hours. I ended up standing outside the room every few minutes to breathe. When attendants came by, they found a reason to leave saying they'd come back later.

Ever since then, if we are in a room with one bathroom, such as a hotel room, he leaves and poops in a public bathroom, even if it is a lobby bathroom.

I am on team gross.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 20:58     Subject: Re:Would you be ok with this?

And you're getting exorcised over this?? Seriously?? Yes, a guy needing to take a crap while you are showering is very inconvenient and embarrassing. But if this is a big issue in your marriage then you have a problem. I do note that you mentioned you were staying in a suite. Most nice suites have a separate room for the toilet. Were you in a suite at a Motel 8?
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 20:35     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

Hotel etiquette: Always drop a twoey in the lobby bathroom. POW! Problem solved.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 12:06     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

MyDH does this all the time. It's become a joke between us.
TwistdMike
Post 04/14/2017 12:04     Subject: Re:Would you be ok with this?

Anonymous wrote:People struggle in relationships all the time and things like this is where it starts. If you can't deal with your Husband take a crap with you in the shower why are you married to him. Seriously? This would have been a perfect opportunity to crack some jokes like "Oh honey, what crawled up in you and died" "Did you say something or was that gas". A chance to have some fun and poke fun at your husband, who you are suppose to love by the way. When your marriage ends in divorce look back at this posting and don't ask why


Direct hit!
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 11:44     Subject: Re:Would you be ok with this?

Anonymous wrote:People struggle in relationships all the time and things like this is where it starts. If you can't deal with your Husband take a crap with you in the shower why are you married to him. Seriously? This would have been a perfect opportunity to crack some jokes like "Oh honey, what crawled up in you and died" "Did you say something or was that gas". A chance to have some fun and poke fun at your husband, who you are suppose to love by the way. When your marriage ends in divorce look back at this posting and don't ask why


Gross. No.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 11:44     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

We would never do it. And why are PP's assuming you have had a kid? Just because someone is married doesn't mean you have kids.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 11:41     Subject: Re:Would you be ok with this?

People struggle in relationships all the time and things like this is where it starts. If you can't deal with your Husband take a crap with you in the shower why are you married to him. Seriously? This would have been a perfect opportunity to crack some jokes like "Oh honey, what crawled up in you and died" "Did you say something or was that gas". A chance to have some fun and poke fun at your husband, who you are suppose to love by the way. When your marriage ends in divorce look back at this posting and don't ask why
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 11:28     Subject: Re:Would you be ok with this?

Yeah that's gross, DH would never want to do that and I would think it weird if he wanted to. Exception, if he's having stomach issues he might need to GO NOW! but then I'm hopping out of the shower and waiting in the next room.

And yeah, we're a close couple with no body hang-ups, but there's such a thing as class. you don't poop in front of anyone if you can help it.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 04:47     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

DH here- gross.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 04:19     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

Pooping takes precedence.
Anonymous
Post 04/14/2017 04:16     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

While I agree with you that this was gross, at least he let you know prior to your shower.
Thank your lucky stars for that!!

In his defense sometimes the urge just hits and if he waits too long he may get constipated.

Next time get two bathrooms.
Anonymous
Post 04/13/2017 10:42     Subject: Would you be ok with this?

If there is only one bathroom, you either needed to get out and let him go or let him come in. When you have to go, you have to go.