Anonymous wrote:I very rarely write thank you notes, even when it's clearly expected that I should. I never make my kids write them. #ReallyLazy

This is me too : ) I actually hate thank you notes!

So ever since hitting my late 30s, I've got a sort of midlife crisis and went for fillers, Botox, etc and told nobody. And now when we go out I keep getting hit on by younger guys. And I love it and encourage it. The youngest has been 25 and the look on his face when he learned my age was priceless. These are stories that are not shared with dh.

I have been suicidal over DW's affair but can't imagine burdening my kids with that. So I live in agony and I know this is taking 10+ years off my life

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Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.

I might be able to help you two out.

Confession - I feel like a lot of submissives really just want to be sexually lazy and have their partner do most of the thinking and most of the work.

Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.

How have you resolved this dilemma?

I confess that the misspelling of this title thread bothers me. In need of edit button!

Anonymous wrote:I'm miserable. Everyone thinks I am happy. I have someone who loves me, and treats me well. I have great friends. An acquaintance committed suicide a little while ago. I kept thinking how lucky they were. I'm not suicidal. I'm just tired.

Please get help and therapy. There is hope, and life does get better. Big hugs to you.

My ex-DW treated me horribly, but I still love her and miss her.

Anonymous wrote:Hope this isn't explicit. I fantasize about being a captive sex slave. Except, so does DH! He wants me to be dominant but I want him to be the dominant one.

I might be able to help you two out.

I'm miserable. Everyone thinks I am happy. I have someone who loves me, and treats me well. I have great friends. An acquaintance committed suicide a little while ago. I kept thinking how lucky they were. I'm not suicidal. I'm just tired.

When I screw my DW all I think about is my college GF. She was such a better lover.

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Anonymous wrote:My DH knew I had an emotional affair with a work colleague. He never knew it got physical. He thought it all ended two years ago. Nothing ended.

So you're still having an affair?

Oh and if it "got physical" - that's not just an emotional affair. But you knew that right?

Yes, I know it became an affair. He caught it at the EA stage and thought it ended there. He was wrong.

A few weeks before I got married, many years ago, one of my DW's GF's hit on me saying she heard from my soon to be DW that I was great in bed and she wanted to try me out. I took the bait. Fortunately she couldn't make the wedding which would have been awkward! I haven't strayed since.

That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.

Anonymous wrote:My DH knew I had an emotional affair with a work colleague. He never knew it got physical. He thought it all ended two years ago. Nothing ended.

So you're still having an affair?

Oh and if it "got physical" - that's not just an emotional affair. But you knew that right?

I have a huge crush on my female friend. I am also female and been with DH for 6 years.