Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

W parent here and we I get between 2-5 email weekly from his teacher, most general and some specific. Another couple a month form the room parents and class social organizer. We do have large classes though that have only gotten bigger as the year drags on, 4 additional kids have been added. I have always wondered, are there as many after school enrichment classes at focus schools. The list of STEM, art, sports and extracurricular classes such as acting, dance and magic classes which take the kids up to 4:45 to assist with work timing hosted by the school is impressive. I assume those are county wide but curious. The PTA resources are obviously going to be different but that seems to help the school budget more than a tanagible benefit per kid.

If anybody has a question about a non-focus supposedly wealthy school and would like an honest answer fell free. I have been curious what it would have been like if we had stayed in Takoma Park. I am curious have they handle the gap between ESOL and English kids.

I'd be interested in knowing more about patent participation. Are there are wide variety of parents who volunteer or do you find it to be the same group of parents in each class? We are at a Focus school and (understandably) it's the parents that are more middle class who can take off work to go on field trips or help with class parties. There are about 1/3 of the parents in any given class that I have never met because they are unable to/choose not to attend school events. I wonder if you get more widespread parent participation at a wealthier school.

I'm a teacher who works in a Focus school whose child attends a by-comparison wealthier school (non W). I can only compare these two schools but here are the major differences that I see:

Focus school:
very few parent volunteers although parents are very welcome to volunteer in whatever capacity they choose. There are a few who have standing weekly volunteer schedules, but they are mostly K parents.
You tend to see the same parents over and over at school events even though events are planned at different times of day to allow more people to attend (some before school, some in the afternoons & some in the evenings)
PTA is small but does as much as they can with the resources they have. Frequent fundraisers which are sparsely attended, and the majority of attendees are school staff. PTA is very hard working and organized.
Very little parent response to requests to send in materials for class parties or projects. Most end up being completely teacher funded.
Some classes may have zero parents volunteer to chaperone field trips. Other school staff are pulled from their regular duties to go on field trips
Teachers spend their own money to buy anything besides the basic supplies that must be ordered from the warehouse at the end of each year for the following year. If a new classroom is added after the order is made then everyone on staff is asked to contribute some of their supplies so that the new teacher has supplies.
Any "extra" events like Muffins for Moms/Donuts for Dads are planned by school staff. Some years PTA has money to buy food for it and others the staff are asked to cater it.
Staff are frequently asked to donate money or items for things like raffle prizes for PBIS
No "extra" subscriptions to programs that aren't provided by the county. My friend at a wealthier school gives me her login info.
Teachers spend a lot of extra hours laminating/cutting/copying/making bulletin boards/making class resources etc.
Maybe one assembly from an outside vendor per year



Comparatively wealthier non-Focus school:
so many parent volunteers to chaperone field trips that teachers pull names out of a hat so that non-chosen parents can't get upset
extremely large and active PTA with sub-committees--"many hands make light work"
many large and well-attended PTA sponsored events with extras like a DJ
PTA gifts teachers with extra money to spend on non-essentials
PTA can buy staff subscriptions to programs like Read Naturally, Reading A-Z & BrainPop Jr.
well-attended "extra" events like Grandparents Day that are planned by PTA committees
room parents who plan and implement class parties
class parties and projects are 100% funded by parent donations
super fast parent response to teacher supply requests---if the teacher emails that they are running low on tissues then immediately parents respond that they'll send some in tomorrow
a rotation of parent volunteers to do tasks like: cut out laminating, staple packets, take down/put up bulletin board paper, make copies, make sight word key rings etc.
parent volunteers to help at lunch and recess
lots of assemblies throughout the year


As I said, this is a sample size of two schools. The comparatively wealthier school isn't in an area of MoCo that's popular with DCUM. These two schools are 4 miles from each other. Not all Focus schools are created equally and a lot depends on the principal. The principal at the school where I work is really only concerned about data and making sure that they look good to their boss. Very self-promoting and not tuned in to the day to day operations. Not really a forward thinker either and doesn't try to think outside the box. Doesn't see how providing students with more experiences like assemblies can help them make connections to what they're learning in class. The principal also stopped all events that aren't directly related to academics, like Field Day. Kids need an opportunity to have fun and see staff in a different light. It helps build relationships and helps kids associate school with things besides just academics. I think the school could make huge strides with a different leader. But that's not either here nor there...

I think there are a lot of benefits to Focus schools and the reduced class size in the primary grades is great. Students learn best when teachers are in a good mood. Teachers at my kid's school are in a good mood because they're supported by admin, parents and the community. I can't say the same for teachers at the school where I work. The stress is higher and teachers are asked to give more and more of their time, money and energy. I wouldn't say to avoid Focus schools--like you would for anything, do your research on the specific school. Go to the school and sense the vibe. Do kids and staff look happy or tense when they're walking in the hallway? For me that would be the most important factor.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

W parent here and we I get between 2-5 email weekly from his teacher, most general and some specific. Another couple a month form the room parents and class social organizer. We do have large classes though that have only gotten bigger as the year drags on, 4 additional kids have been added. I have always wondered, are there as many after school enrichment classes at focus schools. The list of STEM, art, sports and extracurricular classes such as acting, dance and magic classes which take the kids up to 4:45 to assist with work timing hosted by the school is impressive. I assume those are county wide but curious. The PTA resources are obviously going to be different but that seems to help the school budget more than a tanagible benefit per kid.

If anybody has a question about a non-focus supposedly wealthy school and would like an honest answer fell free. I have been curious what it would have been like if we had stayed in Takoma Park. I am curious have they handle the gap between ESOL and English kids.

I'd be interested in knowing more about patent participation. Are there are wide variety of parents who volunteer or do you find it to be the same group of parents in each class? We are at a Focus school and (understandably) it's the parents that are more middle class who can take off work to go on field trips or help with class parties. There are about 1/3 of the parents in any given class that I have never met because they are unable to/choose not to attend school events. I wonder if you get more widespread parent participation at a wealthier school.

That is hard to quantify but I have met just about every parent at least once be it at the back to school night, one of the birthday parties, parent mixers or holiday parties hosted at one of the parents houses. Honestly there are almost too many parties and the sort of become a house show off thing. I guess the 4000+ sqft new builds were meant to entertain but the catering bill for some of these events is sort of obscene when chips and soda would be fine. I would guess it's like the one third type A parent you refer to but with the entire school comprised of them.

The all hands on deck "it takes, a village" is what pushed us to move honestly. It has it's own sets of pros and cons though.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

W parent here and we I get between 2-5 email weekly from his teacher, most general and some specific. Another couple a month form the room parents and class social organizer. We do have large classes though that have only gotten bigger as the year drags on, 4 additional kids have been added. I have always wondered, are there as many after school enrichment classes at focus schools. The list of STEM, art, sports and extracurricular classes such as acting, dance and magic classes which take the kids up to 4:45 to assist with work timing hosted by the school is impressive. I assume those are county wide but curious. The PTA resources are obviously going to be different but that seems to help the school budget more than a tanagible benefit per kid.

If anybody has a question about a non-focus supposedly wealthy school and would like an honest answer fell free. I have been curious what it would have been like if we had stayed in Takoma Park. I am curious have they handle the gap between ESOL and English kids.

I'd be interested in knowing more about patent participation. Are there are wide variety of parents who volunteer or do you find it to be the same group of parents in each class? We are at a Focus school and (understandably) it's the parents that are more middle class who can take off work to go on field trips or help with class parties. There are about 1/3 of the parents in any given class that I have never met because they are unable to/choose not to attend school events. I wonder if you get more widespread parent participation at a wealthier school.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

W parent here and we I get between 2-5 email weekly from his teacher, most general and some specific. Another couple a month form the room parents and class social organizer. We do have large classes though that have only gotten bigger as the year drags on, 4 additional kids have been added. I have always wondered, are there as many after school enrichment classes at focus schools. The list of STEM, art, sports and extracurricular classes such as acting, dance and magic classes which take the kids up to 4:45 to assist with work timing hosted by the school is impressive. I assume those are county wide but curious. The PTA resources are obviously going to be different but that seems to help the school budget more than a tanagible benefit per kid.

If anybody has a question about a non-focus supposedly wealthy school and would like an honest answer fell free. I have been curious what it would have been like if we had stayed in Takoma Park. I am curious have they handle the gap between ESOL and English kids.

"How they"

Anonymous wrote:Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

W parent here and we I get between 2-5 email weekly from his teacher, most general and some specific. Another couple a month form the room parents and class social organizer. We do have large classes though that have only gotten bigger as the year drags on, 4 additional kids have been added. I have always wondered, are there as many after school enrichment classes at focus schools. The list of STEM, art, sports and extracurricular classes such as acting, dance and magic classes which take the kids up to 4:45 to assist with work timing hosted by the school is impressive. I assume those are county wide but curious. The PTA resources are obviously going to be different but that seems to help the school budget more than a tanagible benefit per kid.

If anybody has a question about a non-focus supposedly wealthy school and would like an honest answer fell free. I have been curious what it would have been like if we had stayed in Takoma Park. I am curious have they handle the gap between ESOL and English kids.

My first grader is in a focus school and has 19 kids in their class. Overall the experience is great and my kid is doing great.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Focus schools have smaller classs sizes and other perks. Many of us are at focus schools.

What perks exactly? Compared to wealthier schools? Other than smaller class sizes, which are only for K-2, I don't know of any 'perks' our Ficus school has as compared to Bells Mill or Wyngate. Not a single one.

And, class sizes go right back up in 3rd grade, so that benefit only applies for a short time.

My 3rd grader in a focus school has 22 kids in class. That's not bad at all.

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Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?

What shit?? What in that PP did you find racist? There was no mention of race. Why are you even bringing race into this??

Anyone who comes on here saying anything even remotely negative about a lower income Title 1 or Focus schools automatically gets labeled a racist on this board. Doesn't matter if they are making valid comments.

SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded that it's not always about race?

I NEVER SAID THAT OP WAS RACIST I WAS RESPONDING TO OP'S OWN ASSERTION ""Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist."
I WAS SIMPLY POINTING OUT THAT WAS AN ASININE ASSERTION.
Maybe you better work on reading comprehension before you start responding to posts.

You were not quoting the OP, you were quoting a different poster.

Anyone who needs to yell at anonymous posters online is the asinine one.

Sounds like you need to calm the F down and respond to posts more accurately before spewing off crap.

AND OP'S POST WAS INCLUDED IN THE QUOTED MATERIAL AT THE TOP.
MAYBE JUST ADMIT YOU WERE MISTAKEN AND MOVE THE F* ON

You, my lovely friend, need to pop a Xanax. Nowhere did you quote the OP. Nowhere. You quoted 21:55 and that's it.

I hope you don't scream at your kids the way you scream at random people online. I don't care what color you or your kids are - that just seems over the top. Hope you have a fantastic and calming weekend.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?

What shit?? What in that PP did you find racist? There was no mention of race. Why are you even bringing race into this??

Anyone who comes on here saying anything even remotely negative about a lower income Title 1 or Focus schools automatically gets labeled a racist on this board. Doesn't matter if they are making valid comments.

SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded that it's not always about race?

I NEVER SAID THAT OP WAS RACIST I WAS RESPONDING TO OP'S OWN ASSERTION ""Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist."
I WAS SIMPLY POINTING OUT THAT WAS AN ASININE ASSERTION.
Maybe you better work on reading comprehension before you start responding to posts.

You were not quoting the OP, you were quoting a different poster.

Anyone who needs to yell at anonymous posters online is the asinine one.

Sounds like you need to calm the F down and respond to posts more accurately before spewing off crap.

AND OP'S POST WAS INCLUDED IN THE QUOTED MATERIAL AT THE TOP.
MAYBE JUST ADMIT YOU WERE MISTAKEN AND MOVE THE F* ON

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?

What shit?? What in that PP did you find racist? There was no mention of race. Why are you even bringing race into this??

Anyone who comes on here saying anything even remotely negative about a lower income Title 1 or Focus schools automatically gets labeled a racist on this board. Doesn't matter if they are making valid comments.

SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded that it's not always about race?

I NEVER SAID THAT OP WAS RACIST I WAS RESPONDING TO OP'S OWN ASSERTION ""Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist."
I WAS SIMPLY POINTING OUT THAT WAS AN ASININE ASSERTION.
Maybe you better work on reading comprehension before you start responding to posts.

You were not quoting the OP, you were quoting a different poster.

Anyone who needs to yell at anonymous posters online is the asinine one.

Sounds like you need to calm the F down and respond to posts more accurately before spewing off crap.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?

What shit?? What in that PP did you find racist? There was no mention of race. Why are you even bringing race into this??

Anyone who comes on here saying anything even remotely negative about a lower income Title 1 or Focus schools automatically gets labeled a racist on this board. Doesn't matter if they are making valid comments.

SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded that it's not always about race?

I NEVER SAID THAT OP WAS RACIST I WAS RESPONDING TO OP'S OWN ASSERTION ""Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist."
I WAS SIMPLY POINTING OUT THAT WAS AN ASININE ASSERTION.
Maybe you better work on reading comprehension before you start responding to posts.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?

What shit?? What in that PP did you find racist? There was no mention of race. Why are you even bringing race into this??

Anyone who comes on here saying anything even remotely negative about a lower income Title 1 or Focus schools automatically gets labeled a racist on this board. Doesn't matter if they are making valid comments.

SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded that it's not always about race?

We're at a Focus school and my child's current teacher does a weekly newsletter for parents (what they worked on, discussion questions, highlight of each day of the week (as told by the kids). It's awesome. And, it's teacher dependent - not a W school thing.

Wealthier school communities get weekly teacher emails??
WHAT THE WHAT?

Anonymous wrote:Which Focus School is it? Maybe that makes a difference.

I'll go against all the other posters and say that we don't love our Focus School.

Before I get flamed completely, I feel like I need to say that we are a minority/mixed-race family so people don't automatically come on here and tell that I am racist.

There have been several things that we have not liked, especially when we compare our experience with that of friends/families at non-FOCUS elementary schools in MoCo.

First off, the wealthier schools seem to have a MUCH better sense of community. The kids play together on a soccer team / parents all know each other / do piano recitals together. Our school offers piano lessons but there is not enough demand for it (expensive) so they will probably axe the program next year.

Which leads me to the second issue. Lack of before/after school enrichments. My nephews school offers anything and everything under the son - Scouts, dance, language, drama, science, you name it. Our school has maybe half (if that) the offerings that they do.

Part of the reason there seems to be less of a sense of community is the language. My DD's best friend in 1st grade was a little girl whose parents did not speak English. That is completely fine (I am a kid of immigrants) but it was really tough to forge a relationship with the family. It is much easier to forge relationships with people when you speak the same language. The family is very friendly with other families who speak their language (rightfully so) but there seems to be a decent amount of self-segregation. You see it especially at the school events, like International Night (ironically enough).

Communication is the other big difference we have noticed. Wealthier schools seem to use apps like Class Dojo to let parents know what is going on. We have never had a teacher use that. There are no 'room moms' or weekly emails from teachers. Not sure if the teachers are just more overwhelmed or if it is school specific or what.

There is more, and I'm sure people are going to tear up my post but I wanted to put another POV out there. We can't afford to move so we're here for the long term. If we were able to afford a non-Focus school, I would move in a heartbeat.

ok -- your school is not that great, truly a bad assumption to assume that at a wealthier school those problems would magically disappear.
By the way, being a person of color does not mean you cannot be racist.
SMH - Why do people have to keep being reminded of that shit?