Marry someone who is really into his career but still wants kids. He'll be happy to have a wife to do everything at home.

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Anonymous wrote:Join a fundamentalist church.

I think this was a slur but +1. solidly evangelical, conservative, Catholic or Mormon increases the odds dramatically.

Definitely agree. It has less to do with his income/job than his background and religion whether he's going to be okay with a SAHM.

OP, it sounds like you are looking for a sperm donor and a financier not a husband. Why do I have the feeling that your partner is going to be the recipient of a oops my birth control failed talk sometime.

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Anonymous wrote:The most husbandy, traditional guys marry up early. Your would-be husband was dating his now wife while you were living in a group house and dating around. The only reason these kinds of guys have appeal to you now is because you're looking for a cash cow.

This isn't true. Most men marry in their 30s.

You get an A+ for reading comprehension.

I said the ones who would be the most enthusiastic about this kind of setup (that is, more traditional guys) marry up early. They're not available in large numbers and for the taking for women in their 30s, unless the woman is exceptionally high value.

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Anonymous wrote:To raise good children, you need a good, loving marriage.

Kids don't want a workaholic dad and a helicopter mom who tries to make up for the fact that dad's never home.

STFU! NO YOU DON'T. You just need the mom. Divorced moms raise good kids and they are not in a "good, loving marriage."

STFU YES YOU DO. Single moms raise broken, effed up kids.

Try Asian men. They work hard and are traditional.

Anonymous wrote:The most husbandy, traditional guys marry up early. Your would-be husband was dating his now wife while you were living in a group house and dating around. The only reason these kinds of guys have appeal to you now is because you're looking for a cash cow.

This isn't true. Most men marry in their 30s.

The most husbandy, traditional guys marry up early. Your would-be husband was dating his now wife while you were living in a group house and dating around. The only reason these kinds of guys have appeal to you now is because you're looking for a cash cow.

Anonymous wrote:Join a fundamentalist church.

I think this was a slur but +1. solidly evangelical, conservative, Catholic or Mormon increases the odds dramatically.

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Anonymous wrote:So working moms don't put their children first?

Shut up, OP. And grow up, too.

+10000. No shit. Just admit you are a lazy gold digger already.

Men are the ultimate gold diggers. Women have to do all of the work to bring a child into this world and raise it. Men dont do anything. They are taking advantage of free labor by the woman.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:To raise good children, you need a good, loving marriage.

Kids don't want a workaholic dad and a helicopter mom who tries to make up for the fact that dad's never home.

STFU! NO YOU DON'T. You just need the mom. Divorced moms raise good kids and they are not in a "good, loving marriage."

I think what PP means is that it's better to have a healthy marriage with someone you actually like and care about than to have a marriage based on money and raising kids. Obviously raising kids as a divorced or single parent is better than raising them in a home where marriage is a transaction.

Join a fundamentalist church.

Anonymous wrote:So working moms don't put their children first?

Shut up, OP. And grow up, too.

+10000. No shit. Just admit you are a lazy gold digger already.

Anonymous wrote:I do not want to have to struggle as I am trying to raise my children. It is important to me that I can be home with them and give them everything they need and deserve.

I want to marry a man who can be a good provider and is okay with me putting the children first.

What should be my game plan?

Do engineers make good husbands?

Take out a classified ad and be prepared for a $750 engagement ring.

Anonymous wrote:I do not want to have to struggle as I am trying to raise my children. It is important to me that I can be home with them and give them everything they need and deserve.

I want to marry a man who can be a good provider and is okay with me putting the children first.

What should be my game plan?

Do engineers make good husbands?

it depends. my bro is one, but he has seen WAY too many people at midlevel googlers/microsofties/amazonians who feel trapped at having to come to work everday because their wife is at home riding on them.

He wouldn't care if you wanted to sahm if you were willing to take a huge hit on material things...i.e., he's not going to be a pack-mule for you.