Anonymous
Post 01/17/2017 12:28     Subject: Re:What does this answer mean?
There needs to be a lot more context.

The OP might be insecure, and constantly ask this question, and he might be tired of answering it, so he answers with you decide.

Can't give advice with the amount of context given.

OP - why did you ask the question in the first place?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 21:57     Subject: What does this answer mean?
Anonymous wrote:As my mom used to say, the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. And that is where he is now.


Also Elie Wiesel...
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 20:25     Subject: What does this answer mean?
"Do you want me in your life" is kind of a vague question. There are a lot of ways you can be in his life. He may have been flummoxed by the open-ended question. It can't be answered "Yes" or "No".
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 12:48     Subject: Re:What does this answer mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What was going on when you asked him that?


Honestly, not much at all. I got home from the gym and he didn't say a word to me so I asked him why he never asks me how my workout was. I know that sounds really dumb but I think it just built up over time, and bothered me that he never seemed to care an ounce about how my day was or what I did. It seems small but I personally feel that the little day-to-day interactions give the biggest signals about relationship health. I'm in a new relationship and I always make a point to ask him how his day was or what he did, even what he did for lunch. He does the same. I'm much happier. My ex is remarried too. I don't know if he's happy but I hope he is more caring and involved for her than he was for me.


Is this OP?


No.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 12:28     Subject: Re:What does this answer mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What was going on when you asked him that?


Honestly, not much at all. I got home from the gym and he didn't say a word to me so I asked him why he never asks me how my workout was. I know that sounds really dumb but I think it just built up over time, and bothered me that he never seemed to care an ounce about how my day was or what I did. It seems small but I personally feel that the little day-to-day interactions give the biggest signals about relationship health. I'm in a new relationship and I always make a point to ask him how his day was or what he did, even what he did for lunch. He does the same. I'm much happier. My ex is remarried too. I don't know if he's happy but I hope he is more caring and involved for her than he was for me.


Is this OP?
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 11:41     Subject: Re:What does this answer mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What was going on when you asked him that?


Honestly, not much at all. I got home from the gym and he didn't say a word to me so I asked him why he never asks me how my workout was. I know that sounds really dumb but I think it just built up over time, and bothered me that he never seemed to care an ounce about how my day was or what I did. It seems small but I personally feel that the little day-to-day interactions give the biggest signals about relationship health. I'm in a new relationship and I always make a point to ask him how his day was or what he did, even what he did for lunch. He does the same. I'm much happier. My ex is remarried too. I don't know if he's happy but I hope he is more caring and involved for her than he was for me.


What are you going to do?


I responded just before your last post. I'm happily divorced.
Anonymous
Post 01/16/2017 11:18     Subject: Re:What does this answer mean?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What was going on when you asked him that?


Honestly, not much at all. I got home from the gym and he didn't say a word to me so I asked him why he never asks me how my workout was. I know that sounds really dumb but I think it just built up over time, and bothered me that he never seemed to care an ounce about how my day was or what I did. It seems small but I personally feel that the little day-to-day interactions give the biggest signals about relationship health. I'm in a new relationship and I always make a point to ask him how his day was or what he did, even what he did for lunch. He does the same. I'm much happier. My ex is remarried too. I don't know if he's happy but I hope he is more caring and involved for her than he was for me.


What are you going to do?