Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 21:55     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:Lexus RX 350 or 400


I wanted a Lexus sedan and DH got me the SUV. I hate it. Too heavy to drive around.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 21:39     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Volvo
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 21:29     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Could you rent an SUV and put a bow on it so you can have something to show her, and then take her around to test drive? I really want a minivan but I wouldn't be happy if my DH picked one out for me.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 21:19     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Don't do this. Talk to her about it so you can know what she finds important.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:54     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

What does she currently driver and does she like it? What do you drive? This might help us figure out how to recommend a better choice.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:34     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:MDX

+2
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:29     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

MDX
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:16     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:Love my new Ford Explorer.

+1!
Although it's a nice gesture, I wouldn't want a car that I hadn't test-driven first and did not have input on the options selected.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:16     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Surprise her with a trip to a dealership and let her choose her own.
wow - yes- this!


Yes!!!! Awesome idea!!
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:15     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Is there any way you could get an idea what kind she would like? Maybe ask her best friend to 'casually' fish for information and get back to you or something. I'd hate for you to get her one that she doesn't LOVE.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:10     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Please don't.

Big $$$ decisions should be made together. And she should get a say in what she wants.


+1


+2
I always hate the commercials this time of year (like the Lexus ones) that show people surprising a spouse with a new car. I've always told my husband that I would be pissed if he made such a large purchase without at least talking to me about it first.


+1,000,000

Now some women are different and would be excited, but I would be royally pi**ed if my husband made a decision of that magnitude withiut my input.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:10     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Please don't.

Big $$$ decisions should be made together. And she should get a say in what she wants.


This.


YES. I would be quite annoyed if my husband did not consult me before saddling me with a vehicle he expects me to drive. I chose a Mazda 5, BTW. The opposite of flashy, a mini-minivan, if you will. 6 seats for when the grandparents tag along, but very small, zippy, with a tight turnaround.
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:05     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Anonymous wrote:Surprise her with a trip to a dealership and let her choose her own.
wow - yes- this!
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 20:04     Subject: I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Honda Pilot- safe snazzy and reliable
Anonymous
Post 12/02/2016 19:51     Subject: Re:I want to surprise my wife with a new SUV...

Love my new Ford Explorer.