Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 20:02     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Under no circumstance was I allowed to wear black as a child. As a result, I also owned nothing black. Please don't make this a requirement for attending to your son's birthday.


That's amazing, where did you grow up? Very rural or religious area?


PP here. I grew up in Naples, FL and Potomac, MD. We are not a religious family and never have been, either.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:55     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have a 6yr old boy. We have black pants. We don't have a black shirt or a Star Wars shirt. Heck my kid doesn't know what Star Wars is so aim not buying him a T shirt to come to a party.



How on earth does your 6 year old boy have no idea what Star Wars is? Is he homeschooled?



Go ask your son if he knows/has heard of jedi, darth vadar, R2D2, BB-8 or lightsabers. I bet he has, especially if he has ever been around other children.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:50     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:Everyone's missing the main point here, which is that OP's son is clearly in favor of the Dark Side.


Hahaha! So true.

One would think that would appeal to the moms of dcum who clearly are also on the dark side.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:50     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Under no circumstance was I allowed to wear black as a child. As a result, I also owned nothing black. Please don't make this a requirement for attending to your son's birthday.


That's amazing, where did you grow up? Very rural or religious area?


Not PP, but my kids don't wear black either. They're under 7. I just don't buy it for them. Superstitious I guess. It feels sad to have them wear black. I'm from manhattan.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:48     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Everyone's missing the main point here, which is that OP's son is clearly in favor of the Dark Side.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:47     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Based on the crazy uptight posts from these anti Star Wars moms, OP should make it mandatory and turn away at the door any kid whose mom is against this.

That will make it easy to recognize the unfun moms in the class who will ruin all things fun by objecting to everything.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:44     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:I have a 6yr old boy. We have black pants. We don't have a black shirt or a Star Wars shirt. Heck my kid doesn't know what Star Wars is so aim not buying him a T shirt to come to a party.



How on earth does your 6 year old boy have no idea what Star Wars is? Is he homeschooled?

Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:27     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:Under no circumstance was I allowed to wear black as a child. As a result, I also owned nothing black. Please don't make this a requirement for attending to your son's birthday.


That's amazing, where did you grow up? Very rural or religious area?
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:23     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

How old?
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:13     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Let your son do all black (Luke? Vadar?)

Put on the invitation "Jedi and Sith, join in the fun by wearing your favorite Star Wars costumes or Ts"

Most boys will have something Star Wars in their wardrobe, if only a character T.


No, don't mention it in the off chance a kid doesn't have a tshirt.


My kid is not a star wars fan. OK to put but its a bit off putting.


Yes well, it's not your son's party. My son just went to a tea party and that's not his thing either. But he was able to get to the spirit of things.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 19:00     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

make Chewbacca costume mandatory for all
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 18:53     Subject: Re:Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Sure, you can ask. It's like "Hawaiian Shirt Day" or "Team Spirit Day". People who have the attire wear it, those who don't either choose to purchase some, or wear what they have. It's not as if you are requiring a dress code.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 18:51     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Let your son do all black (Luke? Vadar?)

Put on the invitation "Jedi and Sith, join in the fun by wearing your favorite Star Wars costumes or Ts"

Most boys will have something Star Wars in their wardrobe, if only a character T.


No, don't mention it in the off chance a kid doesn't have a tshirt.


My kid is not a star wars fan. OK to put but its a bit off putting.
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 18:43     Subject: Re:Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

Anonymous wrote:I would put "Star Wars or black attire suggested." and leave it at that.

Those who are interested in joining can find something. Those who can't or don't want to can still come to celebrate your son's birthday in whatever they wear.



+1
Anonymous
Post 11/30/2016 17:31     Subject: Son wants everyone dressed in black for his Star Wars party - Too much to ask of others?

I have a 6yr old boy. We have black pants. We don't have a black shirt or a Star Wars shirt. Heck my kid doesn't know what Star Wars is so aim not buying him a T shirt to come to a party.