Anything as long as I don't have to touch his cold and giant stomach

Nothing

Anonymous wrote:Nothing. Why wear anything to bed once you're an adult?

I slept naked for a long time, but as I've gotten older, I've gone back to pajamas. I am cold at night, and no amount of blankets seems to be enough. Plus DH is warm, so we end up with this really lopsided amount of blankets that create a big tangle. I also like having something on if I get up in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning. I just feel cozier and more comfortable now.

A suit and tie because it gives off that sexy money vibration.

Nothing. Why wear anything to bed once you're an adult?

Anonymous wrote:Me. He can wear me to bed.

You must have one happy DH!

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Anonymous wrote:I don't care and think it is weird to need something like clothes to make you change the way you feel about a SO.

Unless he had some weird fetish of wearing a gorilla suit to bed every night, not sure why this matters.

You don't find some clothes sexier than others? You have no aesthetic preferences? No texture preferences?

NP. Not when it comes to men's pajamas, no. I can't think of anything less important to me than men's pajamas, or lack thereof, now that you mention it.

Anonymous wrote:Me. He can wear me to bed.

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DH wears boxers & a tshirt, which I'm fine with (I do think no tshirt is more attractive, but so is lingerie, and I'm not wearing that to bed every night).

However, what makes a big difference is that it's a decent t-shirt. DH used to wear old t-shirts that had been around for 15+ years and had holes and stains and was way too big, and it was just really unattractive. I made a few joking comments about them, and he has started to get the picture. He picked up some plain, soft t-shirts that are more appropriately sized for him, and it looks much better.

Bed shouldn't be the dumping ground for your old, worn-out, ill-fitting "comfy clothes." You should be comfortable, but also try to wear decent versions of whatever items you like. Get rid of items that have stains & holes.

Anonymous wrote:I am a sucker for shirtless DH in cotton pajama bottoms like these: https://www.jcrew.com/p/mens_category/underwearpajamas/loungepants/endonend-cotton-pajama-pant/A2068. Or shirtless in boxers. Or shirtless with cozy grey sweatpants.

Yeah. I like shirtless, too.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't care and think it is weird to need something like clothes to make you change the way you feel about a SO.

Unless he had some weird fetish of wearing a gorilla suit to bed every night, not sure why this matters.

You don't find some clothes sexier than others? You have no aesthetic preferences? No texture preferences?

Nope. I am also extremely intrinsically motivated so that might be it.

I don't let other people's tone/attitude/actions affect my happiness.

I don't let clothes determine the needs of my loins.

It is super bizarre to me how others are.

Boxers - I like to work my hands underneath for a minute or two and then help remove them. Then I............

Anonymous wrote:I don't care and think it is weird to need something like clothes to make you change the way you feel about a SO.

Unless he had some weird fetish of wearing a gorilla suit to bed every night, not sure why this matters.

You don't find some clothes sexier than others? You have no aesthetic preferences? No texture preferences?

I don't care and think it is weird to need something like clothes to make you change the way you feel about a SO.

Unless he had some weird fetish of wearing a gorilla suit to bed every night, not sure why this matters.

I think it probably depends on how attracted you are to your significant other. I actually don't care what he wears or doesn't wear, but I wish my husband would floss before bed and have taken a shower that day. Also, shaving that day would be helpful. Basically, just normal hygiene. He probably doesn't believe how much that would improve our sex life, though I have told him repeatedly. Weekends are the worst because he seems to take that as a pass to shaving and showers.