Don't need to be wealthy or extremely attractive. Just find someone with low self esteem and make sure to be just enough of a jerk to keep her self esteem low without being an obvious abuser. For instance, she's self conscious about her weight? Poke her stomach but pretend you are tickling her. Make comments like "are you sure you want to eat that? Aren't you trying to lose weight?'.

It seems to work perfectly for a couple I know. He's cheated physically and emotionally their entire relationship from dating through marriage. At this point she's caught him about a dozen times. There are no kids involved yet, but she won't leave him.

Anonymous wrote:Have enough money to attract a dependent woman who wants to SAH and quickly have 3+ children, and - if you chose the woman "wisely" - she won't be going anywhere.

Dependent SAHM = cheat away!

I'm as educated as my husband, and I don't care if he cheats. Find a woman who is very logical, rather than emotional. Then treat her like crap for years so that she is basically totally lacking in emotion for years, but also logical enough to recognize that divorce will be worse for everyone. That's your magic formula.

Have enough money to attract a dependent woman who wants to SAH and quickly have 3+ children, and - if you chose the woman "wisely" - she won't be going anywhere.

Anonymous wrote:Ask Hillary.

Hillary. That's nothing more than unbridled lust for power that most of us here know or care nothing about.

Anonymous wrote:Well, you'll have to be extremely wealthy and also married to a woman who hates herself.

No, she would have to care about him. If she just marries for the money, you want an open marriage.

Anonymous wrote:Tell her she gets $1,000,000 per cheat/affair and she will wish you well in your endeavors. Otherwise, find a woman with the same IQ and morals as you. Low on both counts. Was that helpful?

+1. Lol

Anonymous wrote:Find a woman who is ok with an open marriage.

Yes. IOW, ASK for this. Say at the outset that you don't plan on being monogamous. I assume that you are fine with your partner having the same rules? But don't be surprised if she gets more play than you do.

Tell her she gets $1,000,000 per cheat/affair and she will wish you well in your endeavors. Otherwise, find a woman with the same IQ and morals as you. Low on both counts. Was that helpful?

Anonymous wrote:Well you have to be ok to be in a relationship where you are not with your best friend, or even if you think you are, she doesn't think this anymore. You have to be ok with the fact that your DW has made peace with the fact that YOU are not her hero, or best friend anymore.

This. Plus, a lot of money. And kids, so your wife won't leave you until they are safely in college.

Anonymous wrote:I've always seen a shitload of posts from women on this forum over the years about staying and/or forgiving their husbands cheating and having an affair. I don't think I've been in a relationship where I could get away with it - probably because I always dated women who are economically/educationally similar or higher than me.

Is the key to date/be with a woman who is way below your league or am I just not attractive enough to be forgiven?

Why don't you just have a non-exclusive relationship? Polyamory is a thing. Non-exclusive dating is a thing. Just be honest and find a woman who shares your values.

Marry a woman with low self-esteem
Marry a woman who is antisocial
Marry a woman who aspires to be a SAHM for a career after college.
Marry a woman who is afraid of being alone
Be rich and handsome and marry an unattractive woman
Marry a woman who is emotionally co-dependent on you. Especially the one who plans her entire life a round yours.
Marry a woman who is obsessed with maintaining the family togetherness image even if she is not happy in the marriage.


Stay the hell away from women like me, educated, successful, super independent, and very very high self-esteem and will throw your stuff outside of the house, change the locks and will never give you a second even if we had 10 children.

How do you become a WOMAN that a guy won't leave if they want to cheat/have affair?

Anonymous wrote:Well, you'll have to be extremely wealthy and also married to a woman who hates herself.

This. You have to choose a woman who believes that she is beneath you. Financial dependence is also key - women will think twice once becoming accustomed to a certain lifestyle that they cannot maintain on their own. If you are looking to abuse and manipulate a woman OP you should have plenty of options, especially if you have $$$.

Don't get caught. Moron.