Anonymous
09/30/2016 12:01
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Anonymous wrote:At 37 I get hit on way, way, WAY more than I did when I was 27.
Due to a combination of the following:
- not just losing a lot of weight, but becoming "fit" and committed to working out and being active
- increased confidence due to exercise
- increased confidence just due to getting older and knowing more who you are, giving less of a shit about what others think (this does not mean being a bitch - it just means knowing what not/not to sweat)
- how you carry yourself matters significantly. Being secure in who you are.
^ This!!!
As a 50 year old man who has committed himself to a lifetime of fitness, nothing is more attractive to me than a fit woman over 30. I have dated women in their 50's who are in better shape than those that are 30.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 11:38
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
At 37 I get hit on way, way, WAY more than I did when I was 27.
Due to a combination of the following:
- not just losing a lot of weight, but becoming "fit" and committed to working out and being active
- increased confidence due to exercise
- increased confidence just due to getting older and knowing more who you are, giving less of a shit about what others think (this does not mean being a bitch - it just means knowing what not/not to sweat)
- how you carry yourself matters significantly. Being secure in who you are.
Due to a combination of the following:
- not just losing a lot of weight, but becoming "fit" and committed to working out and being active
- increased confidence due to exercise
- increased confidence just due to getting older and knowing more who you are, giving less of a shit about what others think (this does not mean being a bitch - it just means knowing what not/not to sweat)
- how you carry yourself matters significantly. Being secure in who you are.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 11:31
Subject: Re:Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
If you think you are attractive you will be. Confidence is everything. And real men like real women with some life experience. 30s are hot
Anonymous
09/30/2016 11:29
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
OP - if you don't change your attitude pretty soon, you are going to be a miserable person.
I *LOVED* my 30's. Yes, I started losing my looks, but everything else in life became sooo much better. But, I guess I never lived my life based on my looks, so it didn't bother me that much.
I do have some vanity left. I pluck out the few grey hairs I have. I'm 46. Invest in suncreen, year round; don't drink too much or smoke; get plenty of sleep and have a good diet. The rest is up to your genes. That's my advice to you.
I *LOVED* my 30's. Yes, I started losing my looks, but everything else in life became sooo much better. But, I guess I never lived my life based on my looks, so it didn't bother me that much.
I do have some vanity left. I pluck out the few grey hairs I have. I'm 46. Invest in suncreen, year round; don't drink too much or smoke; get plenty of sleep and have a good diet. The rest is up to your genes. That's my advice to you.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 11:24
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Luckily for me, I've always been ugly.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 11:22
Subject: Re:Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Damn right I do! Heck, my wife is almost 65 and is still incredibly attractive and gets hit on by others, not just her husband! While she doesn't have her 30 year old figure, she is still trim and fit and likes to look attractive. When she was 30 she looked 20 and hated it. At 65 she looks 50-ish and loves it. Go figure!
Over time most men (OK....some men) look for more than just a hottie. It's called maturity. If all someone has to offer is their looks, looks do fade. But intelligence, kindness, humor etc endure.
Over time most men (OK....some men) look for more than just a hottie. It's called maturity. If all someone has to offer is their looks, looks do fade. But intelligence, kindness, humor etc endure.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 10:35
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Of course! I think women are attractive at every age as long as they stay fit and take care of themselves.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 10:32
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Any woman who maintains her fitness (ie, doesn't gain weight) will remain attractive well into her 60s.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 09:37
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
DW is 40 still looks young, and is in better shape than most women I see younger then her
Anonymous
09/30/2016 09:36
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
I think I was my prettiest at 30-33. All the baby fat was gone but nothing had started sagging or wrinkling yet.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 09:18
Subject: Re:Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
OP, I am nearly 20 yrs older than you. Here's what I've learned since I was 29:
1) All the bad stuff I was worried about when younger -- DID NOT HAPPEN.
2) All the bad stuff that did happen -- was never on my radar. I couldn't have worried about them if I wanted to.
Conclusion = worry is a waste of time. Just try to do the right thing in the moment, and live your life.
1) All the bad stuff I was worried about when younger -- DID NOT HAPPEN.
2) All the bad stuff that did happen -- was never on my radar. I couldn't have worried about them if I wanted to.
Conclusion = worry is a waste of time. Just try to do the right thing in the moment, and live your life.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 08:58
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Anonymous wrote:As a guy I don't think you need to worry. Note the views of Benjamin Franklin:
"Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement."
Lol I like that!
Anonymous
09/30/2016 08:57
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a guy I don't think you need to worry. Note the views of Benjamin Franklin:
"Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement."
That was one remarkable dude.
Off to go get my basket and have "ye olde glory hole fun" with dh to check this theory.
Lol!! I'm dying @ this!!!!
+1 snarfed my coffee!
Love This!!!
BTW, my husband strongly prefers women in their 40's. Always has, even when we were in our 30's.
Anonymous
09/30/2016 08:56
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As a guy I don't think you need to worry. Note the views of Benjamin Franklin:
"Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part: The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever: So that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement."
That was one remarkable dude.
Off to go get my basket and have "ye olde glory hole fun" with dh to check this theory.
Lol!! I'm dying @ this!!!!
+1 snarfed my coffee!
Anonymous
09/30/2016 08:51
Subject: Men do you find 30+ women attractive?
Worry about your fertility, not your looks.