Anonymous
Post 09/18/2016 06:14     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Are you saying year round, even in the snow/cold, you wear a pencil skirt and flats with no panty hose? How do you make that work?
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:44     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:Um, self-obsessed?


Self-obsessed for sure, and probably overweight.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:40     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That is not light makeup, OP.


I'm glad someone else thought this, too. I guess what I wear would be considered no makeup.


Yeah, that's definitely not light makeup. I wear what I think is light makeup: mascara, gel blush, tinted lip balm. Concealer for the random zit.

YOu could apply all those things very lightly. I do. DH didn't realize I wore makeup when we first were dating.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:26     Subject: Re:Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Op, the real question is why are you all of sudden worried if this is how prefer you dressing and I'm assuming for years now? Is this an insecurity problem? Over analyzing? Is your husband paying attention to other women or saying something? Or are you just ready for a change in style. In that case find a Hollywood star that inspires you in fashion and use their style as a guide. I like fashion and dressing up. I enjoy switching up my style everyday to work. I'm a visual person, so if you can post some google photos of your current style and I can give you some tips.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:17     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:Flats with a pencil skirt? Just no. Do your self a favor and at least get nice wedges or kitten heels.


No such thing as "nice" wedges or kitten heels.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:06     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Boring. Typical weekend outfit is jeans and t-shirt?? Short brown hair with glasses? If you're happy with yourself then who cares what we think, but since you asked...
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 21:04     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:And you look ridiculous wearing a pencil skirt without hose.


You were raised right.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:53     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Are you originally from Connecticut?
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:36     Subject: Re:Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
None of the above. Not classy, tacky or frumpy.

Boring- yes.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:36     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That is not light makeup, OP.


I'm glad someone else thought this, too. I guess what I wear would be considered no makeup.


Yeah, that's definitely not light makeup. I wear what I think is light makeup: mascara, gel blush, tinted lip balm. Concealer for the random zit.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:35     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Flats with a pencil skirt? Just no. Do your self a favor and at least get nice wedges or kitten heels.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:30     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:That is not light makeup, OP.


I'm glad someone else thought this, too. I guess what I wear would be considered no makeup.
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:24     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:Pearl studs are boring.

And you look ridiculous wearing a pencil skirt without hose.


No. You 85 year old women need to go away and die with this pantyhose obsession
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:22     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Anonymous wrote:With all the threads lately about dressing frumpy or classy or tacky, it got me wondering--how would you view me?

Me:
31
5'1" 130lbs (still losing baby weight from my 10 month old)
Size 6 or 8 depending on brand, usually petite

Brown hair currently cut to chin length with subtle layers, don't color but no grey whatsoever

Wear glasses everyday; not super trendy (eg Warby Parker), just brown plastic rectangular frames

Wear wedding ring and engagement ring (1.5 carat emerald cut solitaire) every day

Always wear basic, light makeup (primer, bb cream, concealer, blush, shadow, eye liner, mascara)

Get my eyebrows waxed every 4 weeks

Typical work outfit (business casual, director level position)

Silk opaque t-shirt (Ann Taylor)
Navy pencil skirt (theory)
Tortoise shell scalloped flats (Sam Edelman)
Pearl studs
Delicate chain necklace
Tissot watch
Navy Michael Kors Selma bag

(Note: very rarely wear heels; wouldn't be caught dead in pantyhose)

Typical weekend outfit:

Skinny jeans (Paige denim)
Solid color tshirt (Everlane)
Chucks
Pearl studs
Plain black leather (no logos) Coach shoulder bag

Thoughts? What should I change?


It would scream "DC" (the Hill) to me if I saw you in an airport anywhere in the world.

As for what you should change? Not a thing. You are who you are. Everything you describe is completely acceptable.

If you want to take chances, ditch the pearls and try something different. If you want to change you life, change your glasses.

I'm a wear-all-black-all-the-time kinda gal. So be it. In the summer, I switch it up with white tops and long, patterned, casual dresses. I have a pair of crazy shoes I sometimes wear with one of my (many) sheath dresses. Whatever.

Do you!
Anonymous
Post 09/17/2016 20:16     Subject: Would you view me as classy, tacky, or frumpy
Corporate drone no style so frumpy.