Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 17:43     Subject: Your engagement ring

Anonymous wrote:21
.5 carat
Not upgrading, though I do wish DH had picked out white gold or platinum instead of yellow gold. I hate yellow gold but I love DH.


I'm not a jeweler, but it might be possible to have it plated over. I don't consider that upgrading, merely correcting a color preference. Just a thought.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 17:36     Subject: Your engagement ring

28
No idea, though i think it cost $7,500
I like it
Would never trade him or it in!
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 16:50     Subject: Your engagement ring

29
2 carats total. Two .5 and one 1.

Upgraded when I turned 40.
One diamond. 3 carats.
It's blingy!
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 15:05     Subject: Your engagement ring

25
1.5ct center stone with .75 ct stones on either side.
Will not upgrade. One of the side stones is a family heirloom from my side and there are 2 tiny diamonds on the inside of the band that were from my MILs engagement ring. DH designed it and it's very very special to me.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 14:34     Subject: Your engagement ring

25
1.5 carat center stone with two .5 carat side stones
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 14:24     Subject: Re:Your engagement ring

27
1.52
Changed setting but no upgrade on the horizon.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 14:20     Subject: Your engagement ring

27 & 34
3.5
Divorcing soon.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 14:04     Subject: Your engagement ring

Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 14:02     Subject: Your engagement ring

21
.5 carat
Not upgrading, though I do wish DH had picked out white gold or platinum instead of yellow gold. I hate yellow gold but I love DH.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:57     Subject: Re:Your engagement ring

It's a pearl, with two small circle-shaped hammered silver rings that I wear as 'wedding bands' on either side of it.
I was 25, he was 26.
I picked it out after his choice arrived and looked more like a molar than the pearl in the picture. I think it cost $110 total. Because pearls degrade over time, I bought a set of matching pearl earrings from the same jeweler that are well cared for/ seldom worn that will be my 'heirlooms' to pass down.

If my pearl becomes totally misshapen I can see paying to have it replaced, but not as an 'upgrade'.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:49     Subject: Your engagement ring

32
It's not a diamond, it's a family ring.
WHAT?! Upgrade what?
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:44     Subject: Your engagement ring

31
One carat center stone of very high quality with half carat on either side. I love it and I wear it all the time. It's very tasteful and I would never ever upgrade it. DH picked out the most perfect setting.
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:44     Subject: Your engagement ring

Anonymous wrote:How old were you and your fiancé when you got engaged?
How many carats was the ring?
Did you upgrade? Why?


I was 29 he was 33. It is a ruby with two smaller diamonds on either side. It was a ring I wanted for a long time that I had planned on purchasing myself for myself.

Never thought about no need an "upgrade".
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:28     Subject: Your engagement ring

29
1 carat
It's my grandmother's ring, originally purchased for her in the 1940s and I love it
Anonymous
Post 08/30/2016 13:17     Subject: Your engagement ring

I was 24 and my ring was 1 carat center stone with baguettes on the sides. A little over a year ago, just before our 20th anniversary, one of the baguettes was lost. It was going to cost $700 to replace and otherwise repair the ring, so I went ahead and upgraded the mounting and it now matches my anniversary band (my wedding set was yellow gold and the anniversary band was platinum).