Anonymous wrote:Be chivalrous and above it all and move out. Be there for the kids and in the end, the bitterness will fade.
NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO - NO
SHE cheated, she moves out. Period. SHE wants to end the marriage, SHE demonstrated this by screwing another guy. SHE obviously has issues that need to be addressed.
The kids WILL FIND OUT WHAT HAPPENED. It is in their best interest to stay with the stable parent, the wife is NOT STABLE IF SHE CHEATED.
In all cases, the cheater should leave the home. Man or woman, they took the steps that ended the marriage. I don't give a damn about any excuses of being driven apart, blah, blah ,blah... Like the PP said: THERE IS NEVER AN EXCUSE FOR CHEATING!