Of course not, bit getting drunk is incredibly stupid, especially in unfamiliar territory.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she got drink, raped, killed and dumped on the ocean. This is a big part of why I hate alcohol, especially for young people. You just don't make sound decisions nor have the ability to care for yourself when impaired. Dumb girl got drunk.
So she deserved to die because she had some fun on a tropical island?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she got drink, raped, killed and dumped on the ocean. This is a big part of why I hate alcohol, especially for young people. You just don't make sound decisions nor have the ability to care for yourself when impaired. Dumb girl got drunk.
So she deserved to die because she had some fun on a tropical island?
PP didn't say Natalie deserved to die. Nobody is blaming the victim for her awful demise. However, someone didn't care if she deserved it or not. He took advantage of her fun-on-a-tropical-island condition. He didn't get the message about how rude and mean it is to do that. Maybe he got the message and just ignored it.
So if you decide to have fun by getting drunk, please remember the gamble you are taking. Not all people are nice and mannerly; some may not play fair.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This was not really a mystery - the problem was Aruba doesn't have great infrastructure for criminal investigations and I recall the boy's father had some influence so pretty sure corruption was involved. Body was never found because I don't think until the US was involved - too late - it was really searched for.
All the dots lined up to that Dutch rich kid, and then he ended up doing it again - got caught on video going into a young woman's hotel room, she died in there, got caught coming out. He is in prison for life - and not a great prison from what I understand. Also his dad had died so his influence couldn't help him at that point.
Not true - he'll be out in 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:This was not really a mystery - the problem was Aruba doesn't have great infrastructure for criminal investigations and I recall the boy's father had some influence so pretty sure corruption was involved. Body was never found because I don't think until the US was involved - too late - it was really searched for.
All the dots lined up to that Dutch rich kid, and then he ended up doing it again - got caught on video going into a young woman's hotel room, she died in there, got caught coming out. He is in prison for life - and not a great prison from what I understand. Also his dad had died so his influence couldn't help him at that point.
Joran has a wife or girlfriend. He has a young child. The jail allows sex.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9:53 and 10:03, you should be ashamed of yourself, blaming the victim.
No one is blaming the victim. It's not blaming to say that you're probably safer if sober and not drunk. That's true in all kinds of circumstances, unless you can completely trust the person(s) you're hanging out with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Do you think those brothers were involved too?
The Kalpoe brothers. No
Anonymous wrote:there are an awful lot of ways to have fun without getting shit faced. Pretty sad that you don't know that. Alcohol causes billions of dollars in injuries, lost wages, destroyed families and lives, property damage, abuse and so much more. But hey, it's all good. They're just having some fun. Tell that to the people who are dead or maimed.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think she got drink, raped, killed and dumped on the ocean. This is a big part of why I hate alcohol, especially for young people. You just don't make sound decisions nor have the ability to care for yourself when impaired. Dumb girl got drunk.
So she deserved to die because she had some fun on a tropical island?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9:53 and 10:03, you should be ashamed of yourself, blaming the victim.
No one is blaming the victim. It's not blaming to say that you're probably safer if sober and not drunk. That's true in all kinds of circumstances, unless you can completely trust the person(s) you're hanging out with.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:9:53 and 10:03, you should be ashamed of yourself, blaming the victim.
No one is blaming the victim. It's not blaming to say that you're probably safer if sober and not drunk. That's true in all kinds of circumstances, unless you can completely trust the person(s) you're hanging out with.
Dude, please shut the f#ck up. The point of this thread is to talk about facts of the case. If you can't contribute to that, see your ass out of this thread.
I do think the brothers know more than they admitted. Not sure if they were involved in the actual crime though. Joran and his dad definitely tried to exercise their white colonial privilege and "pin it on the black guys."
Anonymous wrote:Wasn't there a journalist who spent months undercover making friends with Joran? I thought Joran admitted he took her out to sea and dumped her (like, way out) after she had a seizure while they had sex. He didn't make sure she was alive or dead, just took her limp body out and dumped it.