Did you try pottery barn teen?

Update from OP: Got two from pottery barn kids; one on clearance. Free shipping. That place is expensive AND 21$ shipping and handling seems excessive.

Thank you PP who linked to butterflies; I got those and some fun flamingos. I'm keeping the plain white duvet cover until it becomes un-white and maybe go lilac.

LL bean didn't have cute colors for the room but I might get some for the boy who likes really, really, really soft sheets.

Hanna Andersson has bedding. Love their duvet covers.

I did solid jersey sheets and a solid comforter and put a ton of very girly pillows on the bed. You could also look at target's shabby chic line-pretty and feminine and they come in Q size.

Definitely Garnet Hill. Great patterns for kids and soft.

^ duvet cover and bonus, it's super soft.

My girls love this duvet and for $20 and 100% cotton it can't be beat! We coordinate with sheets from target, the nice super soft Threshold ones (in aqua and lavender)

http://m.ikea.com/us/en/catalog/products/art/80224906/

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Anonymous wrote:Can't believe no one recommended The Company Store/Company Kids. I buy way too much stuff from them.

Tell me more about this. Are the sheets soft?

Why do you like them so much. OP here, I'm moving away from stores and to online, but it takes practice.

I think they are a good fit for you because of the kinds of patterns, even in the "adult" sheets, they make. Jersey sheets are the softest from the get go but they don't hold up like percale. 100% cotton sheets get softer as they age. I bought some fluffy fleece sheets for my son's bed from Kohl's that he loves, loves, loves if texture is your primary concern.

I'd just buy queen size sheets flat and fitted for the bed. And I would buy two of whatever pattern duvet or comforter I liked in twin and sew the two together. At three even up until the age of eight or so there won't be a lot of wear and tear enough to worry about it ripping.