Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks for the replies. Good to know this is all normal. I'm a teacher so they are not coming to school. I live alone so I don't want them in my home. I've never gone through this process before so I was just a bit curious about it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I had an investigator show up at my door unannounced to ask me about my neighbor, whom I barely know.
This is very normal. They want to know if you are the neighborhood troublemaker, or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your friend asked the wrong person to be a reference.
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You are paranoid, OP. Your friend should be alerted and another reference should be used. You better not blow it for your friend, that's all.
How old are you? Plenty of jobs in this geographical area require a clearance. Do you over react like this to everything? You really are a terrible choice.
OP here. Jesus Christ. Calm down. I've never done this before, that's all. I've know my friend for 32 years so I don't think I'll "blow it" for her. It was a bit weird that they wanted to come to my home.
Why? Why does this upset you? It's not like they called you out of the blue.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your friend asked the wrong person to be a reference.
+1
You are paranoid, OP. Your friend should be alerted and another reference should be used. You better not blow it for your friend, that's all.
How old are you? Plenty of jobs in this geographical area require a clearance. Do you over react like this to everything? You really are a terrible choice.
OP here. Jesus Christ. Calm down. I've never done this before, that's all. I've know my friend for 32 years so I don't think I'll "blow it" for her. It was a bit weird that they wanted to come to my home.
They were trying to make it convenient for you. Are you a hoarder? Do you think the FBI agent is going to rob you? Weird that you're so freaked out about having them in your home.
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It sounds weird that you don't want anyone in your home.
OP here. You guys are nuts. I live alone, as I said. I don't invite unknown people into my home. I will do this willingly. It's the next to last week of school and I'm stressed and overwhelmed right now, is all. It's just one more thing on my list. My friend told me about this about 6 months ago and frankly I forgot all about it; the call just came out of the blue today. My friend actually had just started a new job in the private sector.
Thanks to all who provided helpful responses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your friend asked the wrong person to be a reference.
+1
You are paranoid, OP. Your friend should be alerted and another reference should be used. You better not blow it for your friend, that's all.
How old are you? Plenty of jobs in this geographical area require a clearance. Do you over react like this to everything? You really are a terrible choice.
OP here. Jesus Christ. Calm down. I've never done this before, that's all. I've know my friend for 32 years so I don't think I'll "blow it" for her. It was a bit weird that they wanted to come to my home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your friend asked the wrong person to be a reference.
+1
You are paranoid, OP. Your friend should be alerted and another reference should be used. You better not blow it for your friend, that's all.
How old are you? Plenty of jobs in this geographical area require a clearance. Do you over react like this to everything? You really are a terrible choice.
OP here. Jesus Christ. Calm down. I've never done this before, that's all. I've know my friend for 32 years so I don't think I'll "blow it" for her. It was a bit weird that they wanted to come to my home.
They were trying to make it convenient for you. Are you a hoarder? Do you think the FBI agent is going to rob you? Weird that you're so freaked out about having them in your home.
+1
It sounds weird that you don't want anyone in your home.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Your friend asked the wrong person to be a reference.
+1
You are paranoid, OP. Your friend should be alerted and another reference should be used. You better not blow it for your friend, that's all.
How old are you? Plenty of jobs in this geographical area require a clearance. Do you over react like this to everything? You really are a terrible choice.
OP here. Jesus Christ. Calm down. I've never done this before, that's all. I've know my friend for 32 years so I don't think I'll "blow it" for her. It was a bit weird that they wanted to come to my home.
They were trying to make it convenient for you. Are you a hoarder? Do you think the FBI agent is going to rob you? Weird that you're so freaked out about having them in your home.
Anonymous wrote:OP you should calm down. I think you were looking for everyone to say how awful this is and that your friend is putting you out. The reality is this is very normal and not a big deal.
Anonymous wrote:I had an investigator show up at my door unannounced to ask me about my neighbor, whom I barely know.