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Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

For good or bad, there's a lot of truth to this. Women do get bored with the same old dick. The question is, what do you do with this information?

Go to the explicit board...they cheat.

Women are good with their husband and provider who fills the support role, but if that man lacks certain dominate qualities her desire level will decrease. They would rather have sex with the asshole, settle with the nice guy.

In. a. heartbeat. DH is selfish and lazy, in the bedroom and everywhere else.

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Anonymous wrote:Can all you "yes" posters explain why?

Why? Because my husband is lazy, oblivious, messy, fat, not romantic and can't get me off. Any more questions?

Sounds like you have a pretty solid case.

Anonymous wrote:Can all you "yes" posters explain why?

Why? Because my husband is lazy, oblivious, messy, fat, not romantic and can't get me off. Any more questions?

Anonymous wrote:Can all you "yes" posters explain why?

for something different.

i'm sure my DH would feel the same way I do.

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Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

For good or bad, there's a lot of truth to this. Women do get bored with the same old dick. The question is, what do you do with this information?

Yes. Househusband + lover = happy wife.

Is this your current situation? Or just a goal.

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Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

What?

Not the PP, and I didn't see news about it recently, but I imagine he's referring to these sorts of studies:
http://www.livescience.com/1409-fertile-women-prefer-manly-men.html

"[R]esearchers asked women who were at different points in their menstrual cycles (and who were not on the pill) to rate their own attractiveness. Then researchers presented them with image pairs representing "feminized" and "masculinized" versions of the same male body. The women were asked to choose the body they thought was most attractive for a short-term relationship and then again for a long-term relationship. Some of the women performed the experiment again at the opposite point in their cycle.

Fertile women chose the masculine version of each image 15 percent more often, on average, than women who were not fertile, said lead researcher Anthony Little, a psychologist at the University of Stirling in Scotland. The effect was strongest if they were looking for a short-term partner rather than a long-term one, and if they considered themselves attractive."

Also:
http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Near-Ovulation-Your-Cheatin-Heart-6713?RelNum=6713
"New research from UCLA and the University of New Mexico suggests that members of "the gentler sex" may have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle — but only when those mates are less sexually attractive than other men.
. . .
Regardless of where they stood on other measures, the co-eds felt more desirable, attractive and powerful in their relationships during the mid-point of their cycle. But women who rated their mates as more suitable for long-term involvement than a quick fling had different behavior and desires than women who considered their mates hot.

When women were mated to men with low sexual versus investment attractiveness, they were particularly likely to experience increased attraction to men other than their partners at mid?cycle,"Haselton said."

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

For good or bad, there's a lot of truth to this. Women do get bored with the same old dick. The question is, what do you do with this information?

Yes. Househusband + lover = happy wife.

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Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

For good or bad, there's a lot of truth to this. Women do get bored with the same old dick. The question is, what do you do with this information?

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Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

What?

Yup.

Anonymous wrote:Also, for all you "no" posters, how would you rate your level of desire for your husband?

10. Married ten years, five kids.

Anonymous wrote:It's not an either or. I love my husband and enjoy having sex with him. Would I love a roll in the hay with some random hottie? Hell yes.

+1!

Anonymous wrote:The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why?

Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes.

In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week.

It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose.

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Anonymous wrote:You phrase it as "rather" as in would I prefer to only have sex with some one else? No, absolutely not.

If you had phrased it as an option to have both, ie - to live without consequence which is a total fallacy, then I would have acknowledged that yes, I do have desires and fantasies that are divorced from reality.

In the real world, I choose fidelity and I honestly believe this is a happier, more joyful, path than the alternative.

You took my words and turned a question about degree of preference and turned it into an absolute. The question is, who would you prefer to have sex with? Your husband or another guy? You are free to choose one way or another and not limited by that choice.

Which she answered in her second paragraph. If she could have sex with her husband and someone else without consequence she would but that she would never give up her husband. Which means the answer is no, she would not rather have sex with someone else, but would if she could do so guilt free.

That's an answer to a question which was never asked.

And that is the answer to the question that you asked, easily inferred by her post.

Must be a lawyer or a politician. It's a yes or no question. She danced around it and answered with a disclaimer. But will take the answer as a "Yes."

Because that is what you want it to be, clearly it was a no. And I am neither a lawyer or a politician.

I don't have a dog in that fight, so I don't care what the answer is. I was just trying to make sense of it and cut through all the ifs and buts.