Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 10:34     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?


A word that remotely civilized people don't use.


Actually, here on the internet, it's a great word that says a lot in very few characters: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ButtHurt

Speak the language, PP.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 10:30     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?


A word that remotely civilized people don't use.


Let's just also point out that OP's decision to use it suggests she doesn't actually have a clue what DH's perspective is, so we should be careful at taking her recounting of events at face value.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 10:03     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:What is butthurt?


A word that remotely civilized people don't use.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 09:40     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
What is butthurt?
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 09:09     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You married a man-child.


Sounds like it.


yeah but she's a girl-child so they're well suited to each other.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 08:56     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:Hot tip: stop using stupid phrases like "butthurt." It speaks to the level of communication.


But it was so refreshing to me. OP, it's funny, you complete me.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 08:50     Subject: Re:DH butthurt over everything
Aster302516 wrote:I’m sorry about your situation and I can understand how painful it is when your husband is not thoughtful about your feelings. I just said a prayer for you and I truly hope things get better. Wishing you a safe and happy pregnancy! Hugs!


Aw very sweet!! I am not OP but thank you.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 08:48     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else have a DH who is hypersensitive about his own feelings but a complete clod over yours? I'm 30 weeks pregnant and not once has DH walked to the store 3 minutes away to satisfy a craving I'm having. But at 7 in the morning he's upset I didn't add cheddar his eggs. Or he says I'm yelling at him but he starts clanging pots and pans when I'm trying to talk to him. I just need to breathe.


So sorry OP. He sounds like a mix of immature and selfish. Sounds like couples counseling would be very helpful. And please tell him banging pots and pans is so extremely immature and dysfunctional it scares you.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 08:40     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
You picked him. He sounds like a dishrag.
Aster302516
Post 05/23/2016 04:49     Subject: Re:DH butthurt over everything
I’m sorry about your situation and I can understand how painful it is when your husband is not thoughtful about your feelings. I just said a prayer for you and I truly hope things get better. Wishing you a safe and happy pregnancy! Hugs!
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 03:52     Subject: Re:DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You're pregnant not cripple, walk your ass to the store. The outside will do wonders for your attitude. Even in the rain.

As for the cheddar, tell him he's on his own for that. Throw it on and nuke it himself. Damn. It ain't that hard.

Why are you two fighting ? The real fights start when the baby comes. OH YES THEY DO. Now kiss and make up.
i agree, this is silly stuff. Is something else going on?


Exactly! Get up off your ass. Being pregnant (and just 30 weeks) doesn't entitle you to anything.

In some countries you still have to work in the fields until the baby drops.
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 03:36     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
*wisen
Anonymous
Post 05/23/2016 03:36     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Is the clanging of the pots + pans intentional??!
If so, how immature of him.

Anyway your husband sounds like a selfish inconsiderate jerk who needs to grow up.

Fatherhood is just around the corner so he best widen up.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2016 22:04     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone else have a DH who is hypersensitive about his own feelings but a complete clod over yours? I'm 30 weeks pregnant and not once has DH walked to the store 3 minutes away to satisfy a craving I'm having. But at 7 in the morning he's upset I didn't add cheddar his eggs. Or he says I'm yelling at him but he starts clanging pots and pans when I'm trying to talk to him. I just need to breathe.


Relax ... just fry up some tuna.


I cooked tuna when my wife was pregnant. Still have a scar from it.
Anonymous
Post 05/22/2016 21:32     Subject: DH butthurt over everything
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I don't know what post the PP's read. OP your husband sounds like an ass.


Right?! I can't imagine my husband ever whining because I or anyone forgot to put cheddar in his eggs. He's an adult.


This. She makes his breakfast and then he complains that it isn't just so?