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Anonymous wrote:Ask your sibling. Ask also how you can help. And maybe stay at a hotel.

We have discussed. She is not happy with it. I am not sure if that means I shouldn't go at all or if I should keep the original plan. I think she is being unreasonable and crazy.

Well approaching her with that attitude is sure to set her straight.

Not trying to set her straight. She has always been a little unstable and crazy. She was yelling at me about this and I don't really know what to do. We had set something up and now she isn't happy. Honestly, I thought out original plan was good. She never even came to see my kids when they were born, so I am a little confused why she is so upset with me.

Anonymous wrote:Ask her. I wanted to come right away. SIL was uber paranoid that my kids had germs that would infect her newborn (I even offered not to bring them; she claimed I was a "carrier" who would put her baby at risk). I was not allowed to see my niece until she was 3 months old.

What a bitch.