Anonymous wrote:Why not just buy in lower McLean and send your kids to FCPS? Schools there are good and you're practically in Arlington.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP, we're West End. We were at two different privates (the second, very well known), and were disappointed by literally everything from academics (this region simply does not have tremendous private schools) to plain ol' nastiness. We enrolled DC in an ACPS public, and we were astounded. It was terrific. We've stayed in ACPS and DC is now at TC. Doing ACPS without support isn't something we'd recommend, but if your DC is capable and doesn't need a great deal of academic support in order to perform well, consider your ACPS options.
That's interesting. Can you elaborate?
Anonymous wrote:OP, we're West End. We were at two different privates (the second, very well known), and were disappointed by literally everything from academics (this region simply does not have tremendous private schools) to plain ol' nastiness. We enrolled DC in an ACPS public, and we were astounded. It was terrific. We've stayed in ACPS and DC is now at TC. Doing ACPS without support isn't something we'd recommend, but if your DC is capable and doesn't need a great deal of academic support in order to perform well, consider your ACPS options.
Anonymous wrote:OP, I am in a school in South Arlington that is a 5 on GS. I never even consulted great school. I picked our current school by word of mouth and by visiting the school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Actually, the confirmation bias commenter makes one of the best points I've ever read on DCUM.
In response to the original question, I would just offer this: You have time if your kids aren't even in school yet. Kindergarten is Kindergarten and the difference between and ACPS school and most others is going to be pretty small in the early grades.
Also, the hair-splitting about the quality of schools in Alexandria City (our previous home) and Alexandria/Fairfax County (where we now live) needs to be viewed with some perspective. You can get an excellent education in either system. The Fairfax County schools, as a whole, are excellent, though the east part of the county is much more diverse, with more low-income/free lunch/English language learner students. That's just a fact of living in the more urbanized eastern section of the county, which I personally prefer for lots of reason.
I've had kids in both the Alexandria and Fairfax systems and in private school as well, and it comes down to this: You pick the schools that are right for your kids.
When I moved to Ffx county, it was with an eye toward better schools over the years. Well, then I decided private school was going to be the better fit for my oldest, who went private from 3rd to 8th grade. We could have waited, in other words. My middle child has done great in public schools all through the years and is thriving at Mark Twain, and my oldest is now at Edison for HS. But my youngest is still in private school in 4th grade because it is what's right for him. He will move to Twain in 7th grade in all likelihood.
I guess the bottom line from me would be: Don't panic. Don't rush. If you like where you live, give the early years a try at your local school, because you might be pleasantly surprised.
And keep that confirmation bias thing in mind, while also screening out snarky comments about seeking advice online. There is nothing wrong with asking questions here, and nobody with a brain thinks you want strangers you talk to online to make your decisions for you. That's just the trolls talking.
I think that might be your own confirmation bias showing.
Anonymous wrote:Actually, the confirmation bias commenter makes one of the best points I've ever read on DCUM.
In response to the original question, I would just offer this: You have time if your kids aren't even in school yet. Kindergarten is Kindergarten and the difference between and ACPS school and most others is going to be pretty small in the early grades.
Also, the hair-splitting about the quality of schools in Alexandria City (our previous home) and Alexandria/Fairfax County (where we now live) needs to be viewed with some perspective. You can get an excellent education in either system. The Fairfax County schools, as a whole, are excellent, though the east part of the county is much more diverse, with more low-income/free lunch/English language learner students. That's just a fact of living in the more urbanized eastern section of the county, which I personally prefer for lots of reason.
I've had kids in both the Alexandria and Fairfax systems and in private school as well, and it comes down to this: You pick the schools that are right for your kids.
When I moved to Ffx county, it was with an eye toward better schools over the years. Well, then I decided private school was going to be the better fit for my oldest, who went private from 3rd to 8th grade. We could have waited, in other words. My middle child has done great in public schools all through the years and is thriving at Mark Twain, and my oldest is now at Edison for HS. But my youngest is still in private school in 4th grade because it is what's right for him. He will move to Twain in 7th grade in all likelihood.
I guess the bottom line from me would be: Don't panic. Don't rush. If you like where you live, give the early years a try at your local school, because you might be pleasantly surprised.
And keep that confirmation bias thing in mind, while also screening out snarky comments about seeking advice online. There is nothing wrong with asking questions here, and nobody with a brain thinks you want strangers you talk to online to make your decisions for you. That's just the trolls talking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:In general, the people who tough it out in ACPS and profess happiness about their decision to stay have some confirmation bias and have never experienced anything else.
We were you, OP. Moved to Arlington in second graded for the same reasons (although we were in an East End school). It was absolutely shocking how much better the schools are, up and down the line in terms of programming, classroom environment, amenities, etc.
That's the thing, everyone whos happy has confirmation bias. Those who stay and are happy, confirmation bias. Those who go and are happy, confirmation bias. We don't have magical machines that allow people to do one path, rewind, then take the other path and therefore have full information to compare which was "better", factoring in all of the variables. I'm glad you're happy with your choice, PP, but that doesn't mean that someone who made the opposite choice is wrong or wouldn't be happy too.