Anonymous wrote:My DH left his ex-wife for me. No childhood trauma in my life. We've been married for 18 years. I wasnt the typical OW in that we didn't start seeing each other romantically until after he had moved out. There was no long-term, secret affair. But when we met, he was married. And he left her to be with me.
It's normal to want to explain or even vilify the OW, especially if you are the one he left. But it's not particularly helpful.
Anonymous wrote:My DH left his ex-wife for me. No childhood trauma in my life. We've been married for 18 years. I wasnt the typical OW in that we didn't start seeing each other romantically until after he had moved out. There was no long-term, secret affair. But when we met, he was married. And he left her to be with me.
It's normal to want to explain or even vilify the OW, especially if you are the one he left. But it's not particularly helpful.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know why women go after married men. I'm not sure that it is always related to insecurity.
Katharine Hepburn was with a married man for 25 years and she seemed extremely confident.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2014/02/katharine-hepburn-spencer-tracy-movie
And what a great catch he was! Major drinking problem and used to hit her.
Anonymous wrote:Just curious about this. Why do women enter into affairs with married men? Have a good friend who is in one and she cries over not seeing him all the time. No sh!t he has a family and a wife that will always come before you! She's no dummy in other aspects of her life, but gosh what attracts her to unavailable men?? I just don't understand it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know why women go after married men. I'm not sure that it is always related to insecurity.
Katharine Hepburn was with a married man for 25 years and she seemed extremely confident.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2014/02/katharine-hepburn-spencer-tracy-movie
Actresses are the most insecure people on the planet. Not all but many.
Jennifer Aniston has or at least a few years ago had crippling insecurity, Julia Roberts in her youth did too. She seems to have outgrown it.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know why women go after married men. I'm not sure that it is always related to insecurity.
Katharine Hepburn was with a married man for 25 years and she seemed extremely confident.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2014/02/katharine-hepburn-spencer-tracy-movie
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't know why women go after married men. I'm not sure that it is always related to insecurity.
Katharine Hepburn was with a married man for 25 years and she seemed extremely confident.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2014/02/katharine-hepburn-spencer-tracy-movie
Actresses are the most insecure people on the planet. Not all but many.
Jennifer Aniston has or at least a few years ago had crippling insecurity, Julia Roberts in her youth did too. She seems to have outgrown it.
Anonymous wrote:I don't know why women go after married men. I'm not sure that it is always related to insecurity.
Katharine Hepburn was with a married man for 25 years and she seemed extremely confident.
http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2014/02/katharine-hepburn-spencer-tracy-movie