Stop coddling your snowflake and get on with your lives...no reason to wear underwear to bed and tell her to deal with underwear during the day and thats it!! She is pushing your buttons and the bigger deal you make out of it the worse it will be...

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Anonymous wrote:It sounds like there may be a bigger issue to work through here than just underwear. Have you talked with anyone about it?

Op here. Not really, although when she was a toddler, a pediatrician said she might have sensory issues. Nothing else has had a significant impact on daily life except the underwear thing. A bit picky in terms of food but eats most of what I make. Is this something worth mentioning at a dr. Visit?

I had the same sensory issues with underwear my entire life and finally just stopped wearing them in my late 20's. I also can't wear socks. I wouldn't consider it a significant impact on daily life, though, so it's up to you if you want to mention it to the doctor. Unless she has other related issues that concern you, I'd just let it go.