I think we all tend to take stock at some time in our lives and make changes. Sometimes for the better, sometimes different, and sometimes for the worse. Sounds like your DH is just looking for something different. Embrace the change and encourage him, he will feel respected and valued and continue to enjoy life.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband is 36 and just did all of these things as well (different car). I think he looks super hot w a beard. He gets hit on a LOT. Mostly I am super flattered. Flat stomach, great man beard, I mean he's way hotter then when I married him TBH.

Are there really great woman beards?

Well, I started growing one right around 40...

Anonymous wrote:My husband is 36 and just did all of these things as well (different car). I think he looks super hot w a beard. He gets hit on a LOT. Mostly I am super flattered. Flat stomach, great man beard, I mean he's way hotter then when I married him TBH.

Are there really great woman beards?

Assuming the Mini is not an "S", I'm afraid your husband is gay.

Did he start growing the beard in November? No Shave November?

Crossfit isn't surprising, I think most guys have an epiphany one day that they must get back in shape and be the manly man.

The mini coupe makes me think he's turning into a hipster. He'll probably grow a mun next.

My husband is 36 and just did all of these things as well (different car). I think he looks super hot w a beard. He gets hit on a LOT. Mostly I am super flattered. Flat stomach, great man beard, I mean he's way hotter then when I married him TBH.

Anonymous wrote:My DH had a mid-life affair. I actually bought him protection so he wouldn't bring anything home with him. I refused to get a divorce. I didn't want someone else getting someone I had worked so hard on and spent so much time with.

I agree with this. Most affairs do not work out long term and often the man ends up appreciating what he has.

Anonymous wrote:The Mini Cooper is the car I want for my midlife crisis.

But I'm a woman.

I'm 40 too and have passive thoughts about owing one too lol!!! Maybe it is a mid life crisis car.

Some guy in tysons droves a hello kitty one. I burst out laughing every time I see him wish I had a pic.

Anonymous wrote:Okay I know a guy who is this age and just did these three things.

If you are his wife, you have nothing to worry about. At all. You must be 40 or so but you look like you are 23.

Seriously, you are ridiculously hot. Not just for him but for anyone.

Aw!!!

Okay I know a guy who is this age and just did these three things.

If you are his wife, you have nothing to worry about. At all. You must be 40 or so but you look like you are 23.

Seriously, you are ridiculously hot. Not just for him but for anyone.

Anonymous wrote:Cross fit, Mini Cooper and a beard is the saddest midlife crisis description I've ever heard.