Anonymous wrote:Don't allow tweens to "date" in the first place.

There, you've been schooled.

But they will do it whether or not you allow it, and you can't stop it, because it happens at school. Then what?

Don't allow tweens to "date" in the first place.

There, you've been schooled.

Got it, thanks for the explanation.

Anonymous wrote:Why is he not allowed to buy her school lunch?
Do you fear the girl could take advantage of his generosity?
My daughter buys sometimes her friends food, or they share.
Just wondering what the reasoning is, not judging.

OP here.

I think if he wants to buy her lunch that he should be paying for it not the using the money we put in his account. I don't think anything about the girl and taking advantage. If he wanted to buy her lunch I could have come up with some extra chores for him to earn a few dollars.

Now if she forgot her lunch or something like that I wouldn't care.

To 14:49, I didn't know that. Ds had multiple food allergies when he was younger so we always taught him not to share food without getting a parent's permission first just in case the other person has allergies. I guess their older now so maybe not necessary anymore.