Was I tempted to stay with him? At the time I found out, no because I was really mad. But had he waited a day or so until I cooled off and approached me with more of an apology (eg flowers, an 'I'm sorry'), I might have been more receptive. But as upset as he was, I noticed how self-centered his comments were when I caught him. It was all about how he made a mistake because I work too much, not one word of sorry for hurting me.

Has he gotten over me? I guess-- we haven't had any contact since then and that was more than six months ago.

Anonymous wrote:He was upset that I broke up with him. I don't think he expected me to catch him and I don't think he wanted to break up. He kept saying he had made a mistake and he couldn't believe he had messed this (meaning us) up.

Were you tempted to stay with him and has he gotten over you?