Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One additional thing to consider: if DC is admitted early action to somewhere lots of people would consider a "dream school" there is a lot of peer pressure to stop applying to the super elite schools to give your classmates a better chance and not get greedy. "Oh yes, I was very excited to get into Harvard early, but I still want to apply to the other 7 Ivies so I can see how many acceptances I can rack up" just doesn't fly if you are a considerate person.
That happened to one of DCs friends. Accepted EA at Stanford but still applied to many Ivies. Accepted at several and actually ended up attending one of those rather than Stanford so it was the right strategy, but some of the kids thought he was just trying to rack up acceptances.
We found this is quite popular to do. SAme idea- get in HYP or Stanford, get in, then apply to all the others just to see and end up going to first choice anyway. I don't get it but it's definitely done
Anonymous wrote:Most people do not apply to just two schools. Good things worked out well for your DC.Anonymous wrote:It was a no brainer for DC, since we weren't comparing financial aid packages. Applied to his first choice Ivy ED (6% admit rate) and also EA for his safety (our state flagship with a 45% in-state admit rate). He wasn't focused on an Ivy brand so he was comfortable with picking just one and he felt his safety school would be fine as well. His strategy meant that he only applied to two schools and was all done November 1. Most of his friends were still rewriting their essays after Christmas. His thinking was he'd hear in December on the Ivy and if he didn't get in, he'd get the other decision in January. As it turned out, he got admitted to his first choice and withdrew the second application. So much less drama and fuss than most of his classmates obsessed with parsing 20-30 schools to get down to 10 applications.
Most people do not apply to just two schools. Good things worked out well for your DC.Anonymous wrote:It was a no brainer for DC, since we weren't comparing financial aid packages. Applied to his first choice Ivy ED (6% admit rate) and also EA for his safety (our state flagship with a 45% in-state admit rate). He wasn't focused on an Ivy brand so he was comfortable with picking just one and he felt his safety school would be fine as well. His strategy meant that he only applied to two schools and was all done November 1. Most of his friends were still rewriting their essays after Christmas. His thinking was he'd hear in December on the Ivy and if he didn't get in, he'd get the other decision in January. As it turned out, he got admitted to his first choice and withdrew the second application. So much less drama and fuss than most of his classmates obsessed with parsing 20-30 schools to get down to 10 applications.
Anonymous wrote:One additional thing to consider: if DC is admitted early action to somewhere lots of people would consider a "dream school" there is a lot of peer pressure to stop applying to the super elite schools to give your classmates a better chance and not get greedy. "Oh yes, I was very excited to get into Harvard early, but I still want to apply to the other 7 Ivies so I can see how many acceptances I can rack up" just doesn't fly if you are a considerate person.
Anonymous wrote:Good things worked out for your DC. However, EA and restrictive EA are totally different and might not have had such a bad experience who s/he had done EA.Anonymous wrote:My oldest DC did restrictive early action and was accepted at a "dream" school. We didn't think it was the right place for DC, but s/he wouldn't consider doing any more applications. By that point, s/he was sick of the whole application process, plus, "hey -- I got into a school that people dream of getting into, Mom." Fast-forward -- DC pretty much hated the school and transferred to a very different school (a school we had suggested way back in junior year, though DC had declined to even visit.) All's well that ended well -- DC (now a senior) is very happy, but we're not EA/ED fans.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One additional thing to consider: if DC is admitted early action to somewhere lots of people would consider a "dream school" there is a lot of peer pressure to stop applying to the super elite schools to give your classmates a better chance and not get greedy. "Oh yes, I was very excited to get into Harvard early, but I still want to apply to the other 7 Ivies so I can see how many acceptances I can rack up" just doesn't fly if you are a considerate person.
That happened to one of DCs friends. Accepted EA at Stanford but still applied to many Ivies. Accepted at several and actually ended up attending one of those rather than Stanford so it was the right strategy, but some of the kids thought he was just trying to rack up acceptances.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:One additional thing to consider: if DC is admitted early action to somewhere lots of people would consider a "dream school" there is a lot of peer pressure to stop applying to the super elite schools to give your classmates a better chance and not get greedy. "Oh yes, I was very excited to get into Harvard early, but I still want to apply to the other 7 Ivies so I can see how many acceptances I can rack up" just doesn't fly if you are a considerate person.
That happened to one of DCs friends. Accepted EA at Stanford but still applied to many Ivies. Accepted at several and actually ended up attending one of those rather than Stanford so it was the right strategy, but some of the kids thought he was just trying to rack up acceptances.
Anonymous wrote:One additional thing to consider: if DC is admitted early action to somewhere lots of people would consider a "dream school" there is a lot of peer pressure to stop applying to the super elite schools to give your classmates a better chance and not get greedy. "Oh yes, I was very excited to get into Harvard early, but I still want to apply to the other 7 Ivies so I can see how many acceptances I can rack up" just doesn't fly if you are a considerate person.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good things worked out for your DC. However, EA and restrictive EA are totally different and might not have had such a bad experience who s/he had done EA.Anonymous wrote:My oldest DC did restrictive early action and was accepted at a "dream" school. We didn't think it was the right place for DC, but s/he wouldn't consider doing any more applications. By that point, s/he was sick of the whole application process, plus, "hey -- I got into a school that people dream of getting into, Mom." Fast-forward -- DC pretty much hated the school and transferred to a very different school (a school we had suggested way back in junior year, though DC had declined to even visit.) All's well that ended well -- DC (now a senior) is very happy, but we're not EA/ED fans.
NP - How so? EA and REA/SECA are different but I'm not sure if I'd characterize it as "totally different." One just has more restrictions than the other. Maybe I am missing your point.