As someone who will be departing for our 6th WDW trip with twin 5yo later this week, here is my advice.

Your DS 1 is not too young. However I would be concerned with DS2 going at a young age. Not impossible but as many have said already, how small he is a vulnerability, I'd just keep him away from the parks if I could. That being said, if during your DHs trip or before or after you can tag along and stay at a WDW resort, I think it would be enjoyable for your family. The resorts have much to offer and move at a much slower, less crowded pace. The pools are heated and the slides are fun for a kid DS1's age. You can shop and dine at Disney Springs. My sons love the TRex restaurant and there is a play area of the lego store that is free entertainment. You can ride take buses, ride the monorail, and even take boat transportation for free on property. We often have one day (no park day) where we ride the bus to the monorail, take the monorail to Magic Kingdom but instead of entering the park we jump on a boat and go to Fort Wilderness instead. My kids play on the playground (near where the boat docks) for a bit then we go to the riding stables for my boys to ride the ponies for $6 or $8 each (only cash accepted). We round out the day by going to Downtown Disney/Disney Springs. Last time we rode the boat from Dis Springs back to our resort.

I recommend at least a 1br with a full kitchen so that you can make some meals in your room.

You could also book a character breakfast/lunch at a resort -- as long as it isn't in the park, a park tix is not required.

One last idea is that if you rent DVC points, you may get the DVC perk to pool hop (go to a resort other than your own and enjoy the pool). We are DVC so I'm not sure if DVC point renters can do that too, but we often have a pool hop day we love. There are some resorts (ie Saratoga Springs) with pool playgrounds intended for the 5 and under crowd that can entertain that age group for hours with the slides, buckets, and only a foot or so deep.

Another vote for No. Or if you do decide to do it, I would do one day in the magic kingdom and then relax at s nice hotel like Bonnet Creek. You're kids are both two young to fully appreciate the effort and expense otherwise. Your thee year old will be overstimulated and overtired.

This trip to Disney would be for you not the kids. Admit that to yourself.

Anonymous wrote:OP you're clearly wanting to do this, so why ask? I personally think you're being foolish bringing a baby that young when your oldest is still young. But you're on the defensive for every post saying no. So why ask!?

I think PP's made some good points I hadn't considered, like the immunity issues, room sharing problems, as well as a few points which might apply to someone else considering the same thing but not us (for example, I think it's very relevant to the discussion to say that I wouldn't take both kids to the parks alone...that does sound incredibly stupid!). I certainly haven't booked the tickets, yet! I still haven't come up with any reasonable sounding alternatives, either, although that could be b/c traveling with a little baby just isn't that much fun. I appreciate both perspectives, which is why I asked the question.