I had avery high achieving but anxious daughter. We had her evaluated and she does not have a specific problem, she is just a worrier. We do not pressure her. We decided against Big 3 and Hollton because of too much competitive pressure. We ended up at Catholic for middle school, but if you don't want a religious environment, I would look at Field and Burke.

Thank you, recent posters, for the supportive and encouraging comments. Way to lift up your fellow mom.