Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Being merely pretty enough is plenty. Being generous in your praise is everything. Also being his cheerleader at work, not a pouty malcontent about late nights and cancelled plans.
+1. Be supportive and understanding. Applaud accomplishment. Pick up the slack in other areas so that your lives are easier and less stressful.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.
It's unfortunate that your situation didn't work out. Mine did though, and I can tell you that DH puts me on a pedestal and has NEVER put me down or treated me like shit. If you have true confidence you don't settle for anything less than money AND love. And trust me, you can get both.
[b]Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:[b]Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.
This is true. I know a girl (you know, the slutty look type) who made it her mission to bag a rich guy and broke up a doctor and his doctor girlfriend (she's was brilliant but plain) with great blow jobs and then married him. She was and is a going nowhere loser and her husband gives her an allowance. She doesn't work and still gives blowjobs.
Brilliant plain Doctor isn't married, but she's travelled around the world and volunteers for Doctors Without Borders. If I could go the other way, I'd totally marry her, she's fabulous. She's from the DC area, so if you're reading this I think you're amazing, I really do.
You are very oddly infatuated with your friend's life. Too bad they don't teach blowjobs in medical school.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.
Be good with make up.
Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.
Anonymous wrote:Being merely pretty enough is plenty. Being generous in your praise is everything. Also being his cheerleader at work, not a pouty malcontent about late nights and cancelled plans.
Anonymous wrote:You do not need to be pretty, nor do you have have to be blonde. You need to know how to do your make-up and need to know how to dress provocatively without looking slutty. You need act confident and make the guy think his lucky to have you. You can't be too needy and you have to make the guy think that you want him, not that you need him. You have to hide your resentment when he treats you like shit. You have to put up with being put down. You have to put out whenever he wants it even if you don't. You have to lie. A lot. Lie about who you are, how you feel, what you want. You can never really be yourself. It's a shitty job. You are always under someone else's thumb. Go to school and try to make it on your own. You might not be fabulously wealthy, but you will have a comfortable life and you'll be a lot happier. More money will not make you happy. I married for money and it was hell.
Anonymous wrote:[b]Anonymous wrote:Blow jobs. Lots and lots of high quality blow jobs.
This is true. I know a girl (you know, the slutty look type) who made it her mission to bag a rich guy and broke up a doctor and his doctor girlfriend (she's was brilliant but plain) with great blow jobs and then married him. She was and is a going nowhere loser and her husband gives her an allowance. She doesn't work and still gives blowjobs.
Brilliant plain Doctor isn't married, but she's travelled around the world and volunteers for Doctors Without Borders. If I could go the other way, I'd totally marry her, she's fabulous. She's from the DC area, so if you're reading this I think you're amazing, I really do.