Anonymous
Post 02/12/2016 14:05     Subject: Re:Grandparents of SN grandchildren
Anonymous wrote:op: After my mom left, I created distance. I brought my expectations down to zero. My mom acted angry at me for another year and a half. During the last 6 months, she and I have made up. She visits 2-3 times a year. I have asked her to stay in my house only if my dad is not with her, otherwise stay in a hotel. Maybe this is mean to my dad, but he has been completely selfish, and I have not had any type of guests since my son got sick.


I'm sorry, Op. It sound like you are under a lot of stress. Just do what you need to do to get your family through this difficult period. I don't have guests to my house, either. People don't understand your situation unless they have gone through something similar. Hire whatever help you can afford and make do on that.
Anonymous
Post 02/11/2016 15:20     Subject: Grandparents of SN grandchildren
There's some wild projecting on this thread.
Anonymous
Post 02/11/2016 14:48     Subject: Re:Grandparents of SN grandchildren
op: After my mom left, I created distance. I brought my expectations down to zero. My mom acted angry at me for another year and a half. During the last 6 months, she and I have made up. She visits 2-3 times a year. I have asked her to stay in my house only if my dad is not with her, otherwise stay in a hotel. Maybe this is mean to my dad, but he has been completely selfish, and I have not had any type of guests since my son got sick.