My cousin is married with a teenage daughter, and she and her husband are still living together. They are both in other relationships and will divorce when their kid graduates high school. However, my cousin is really a psycho when it comes to her first ex boyfriend from high school. She is in contact with him all the time. She feels entitled like he owes her from the time he spent with her but didn't marry her. She "blackmails" him emotionally.

Anonymous wrote:Wounded bird trick. Tell him to get rid of her.

this x 1000

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wounded bird trick. Tell him to get rid of her.

This exactly. "I'm single now and want you to know about it in case you're still interested - I'm throwing in the potential new relationship angle so you know to move in on me quickly before I'm unavailable again." Im sure she has better friends to seek this kind of advice from. She reached out to him for only one reason. I pulled this with an ex when I was young and dumb in my 20s.

Generally I agree that's what's she's probably doing but who wants to be with a married man who is about to have a new baby?!!

Maybe they've always wanted to be friends but OP would never allow it. They are getting in touch now because there's no way they would be romantic right now.

It IS a big fucking deal to half ass quote Joe Biden.

If it were me, I'd nip this shit quick.

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Anonymous wrote:Wounded bird trick. Tell him to get rid of her.

This exactly. "I'm single now and want you to know about it in case you're still interested - I'm throwing in the potential new relationship angle so you know to move in on me quickly before I'm unavailable again." Im sure she has better friends to seek this kind of advice from. She reached out to him for only one reason. I pulled this with an ex when I was young and dumb in my 20s.

Generally I agree that's what's she's probably doing but who wants to be with a married man who is about to have a new baby?!!