Not only should the father of the kids be completely responsible for his kids, but he should take them out of the house so his BIL can have some peace and quiet. The poor BIL is being held hostage in his bedroom for fear of having to come out and entertain the kids.

Anonymous wrote:It is really up to DHb to decide if he wants to or not. These are not his children.
Had it been me, heck, yeah, I would have helped out - but without knowing the dynamics between these two men and DHb and the two kids, it’s hard to know what is best.

This.