I believe in telling because it is a kindness to the other cheated-on spouse so they no longer have a false idea of their marriage. It's what I'd want if I were living in clueless oblivion of my husband's cheating.

But a side benefit is that the marriage implosion it might cause for the other woman is probably the best revenge possible against her at this point. Good. Deal with that, bitch.

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Anonymous wrote:I think it a public health issue.

I told the husband in a short email.

I said I am sorry if you did not want to know but that I would so I was sending the email.

Good luck!

It's not a public health issue. THis was a private affair. Even if there were sloppy seconds, I don't see how this was a public health issue.

Are you that stupid??!! No your neighbor doesn't need to know but the cheated on spouse certainly deserves to know.

You can't get an STD unless one partner had an STD. If you are worried, get the husband tested and tell if he is infected.

Don't bring this pain into someone else's marriage. Deal with your own stuff and leave them alone

No need to up the drama.

I find it funny when cheaters don't want the noncheating spouse to "being pain to somebody else's marriage".

How backward is that thinking.

Ha. My sister's now ex-DH was cheating with a married co-worker. I told me sister to tell the cuckolded husband. She didn't. Affair continued for another year (hidden from my sister at that point). He eventually found out, too, but it was too late at that point to save either marriage.

Funniest thing: the OW called my sister and asked her not to contact her husband. My sister said, "I'll make that promise when you promise to stop contacting my husband." That pissed off both the OW and former BIL. Said that my sister was interfering in the OW's marriage. Ridiculous.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it a public health issue.

I told the husband in a short email.

I said I am sorry if you did not want to know but that I would so I was sending the email.

Good luck!

It's not a public health issue. THis was a private affair. Even if there were sloppy seconds, I don't see how this was a public health issue.

Are you that stupid??!! No your neighbor doesn't need to know but the cheated on spouse certainly deserves to know.

You can't get an STD unless one partner had an STD. If you are worried, get the husband tested and tell if he is infected.

Don't bring this pain into someone else's marriage. Deal with your own stuff and leave them alone

No need to up the drama.

I find it funny when cheaters don't want the noncheating spouse to "being pain to somebody else's marriage".

How backward is that thinking.