Anonymous wrote: I think the key to anyone's heart is the desire to take care of each other's needs. A little bit goes a long way.
This is the perfect answer if you are in a loving relationship.
If his needs are met then he should naturally want to fill your needs and so on and so on.
The trick is to know what those needs are and to not start a Mexican standoff the first time you feel neglected.
Men's needs are mostly simple but often misunderstood. I need my "balls drained" but it isn't just mindless sexual release. That is the way that I connect to DW the most. We can talk all we want, it helps, but I still need her intimacy in order to feel connected.
In my experience women tend to give men too much credit and think he should just know her needs and how to fill them. Things go much better when DW is honest, open, and blunt.