Learn to love yourself. That is what men will find attractive, at least ones that are worth your time. I dated very seriously a woman who was amazingly hot a while back. Amazingly, she was a great person as well! But she didn't think so. Nothing I could do or say changed that. Even though she was legit movie star hot she could never stand to be naked with me, even just getting dressed. It was too much because it was painful she didn't love herself enough to be completely open in our relationship. I would not have given two s***ts if she had some scars or flaws because she was awesome. There will be someone out there that feels that way about you if you are awesome.

Anonymous wrote:I had a surgery that left me disfigured/scarred. It's not something that is obvious unless I take off my clothes. It's been years, but it's kept me from being in a relationship. I don't think I could bear the rejection or seeing disgust on a man's face. I prided myself on my looks prior to this and I know how visual men are. How can I bring something like this up and when or do I just ignore it and say nothing. Whenever I'm approached by a man I totally shut him down because I think to myself he wouldn't be interested in me if he knew what I really look like. It makes me feel totally unlovable and I don't really know why.

You're being way too hard on yourself. I met this super hot babe in my hometown before I left for DC. Friend and I were pining for her, he won. After banging her, said he discovered that had half a leg because she lost it in a lawnmower/tractor accident when she was young. Oh well, she was hot. You're not screwing her leg...

Anonymous wrote:PP: It sounds like your husband married the keloid, maybe he has some kind of a fetish.

PP here. Yes, that must be it!

PP: It sounds like your husband married the keloid, maybe he has some kind of a fetish.