Anonymous wrote:The only time my DC was stressed was when he took 5 APs, taking 3 was easy. And DC still did plenty of extracurrics and varsity sports all 3 seasons. APs don't take away from electives - if you take AP history instead of honors history, or AP Calc instead of regular calc you are just swapping core classes you would be taking anyway.
But if you don't think they are right for your kid then suggest he not take them.
Spoken like someone who didn't have to pay for their own education or whose parents didn't have to sacrifice for college.Anonymous wrote:What's so great about high school? I'd rather take more interesting courses and have time to study abroad in college.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Me too. It's ridiculous to think they should want to do anything but build their academic profile in their teenage years.
It is a choice. If your child doesn't have the drive, brains and/or desire to get into a competitive college, let them be and be content that their career ambition is what it is.
Obviously it is a choice- the parents choice. Unless you are taking a hands off approach to see what your child's ambition and desires are?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Me too. It's ridiculous to think they should want to do anything but build their academic profile in their teenage years.
It is a choice. If your child doesn't have the drive, brains and/or desire to get into a competitive college, let them be and be content that their career ambition is what it is.
Anonymous wrote:Me too. It's ridiculous to think they should want to do anything but build their academic profile in their teenage years.
Anonymous wrote:
OP here. My point is that it hasn't always been this way. At what point did it change? When did it become NECESSARY to take 5-7 AP classes to have a competitive college application? I am not a Pollyanna but think it is sad that high school has become a pressure cooker instead of the stepping stone into adulthood that it once was.
It was like this when I went to hs in the 80ties. I took 6 APs and got into an Ivy. Grew up outside of Cleveland, OH. Elite colleges want to see the most rigorous course choices. My classmates from out parts of the country especially ones from NYC, Chicago, Bethesda/CC had similar experiences.
If you want your child to have a kinder, gentler hs experience move to Alaska, Montana, etc. where hs don't offer so many AP courses.
+1 I went to high schools in the 80s and there were people who did reasonably well on 5 or 6 APs and still didn't get into Ivies. I imagine it's much more competitive now.
OP here. My point is that it hasn't always been this way. At what point did it change? When did it become NECESSARY to take 5-7 AP classes to have a competitive college application? I am not a Pollyanna but think it is sad that high school has become a pressure cooker instead of the stepping stone into adulthood that it once was.
It was like this when I went to hs in the 80ties. I took 6 APs and got into an Ivy. Grew up outside of Cleveland, OH. Elite colleges want to see the most rigorous course choices. My classmates from out parts of the country especially ones from NYC, Chicago, Bethesda/CC had similar experiences.
If you want your child to have a kinder, gentler hs experience move to Alaska, Montana, etc. where hs don't offer so many AP courses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kids take AP classes to up their GPA so they can get into college. On all of the college tours DD and I have attended so far, all of the admissions counselors say they like to see a rigorous course schedule, AP, IB, etc.. it's almost a necessity to get into many schools.
But this isn't really true. Most colleges will calculate your unweighted GPA and use that to determine if students make the cut for admission. My DD tracks her GPA as weighted and unweighted.
Yeah but the most elite colleges want to see the most rigorous courses available and done well.
No one forces kids to take AP, IB etc. but if if they want to go to HYP or equivalent from this area, it is what it is.
But it is a choice. If your kid does not want to work their tail off and don't aim for the ivies, they don't have to do this.
OP here. My point is that it hasn't always been this way. At what point did it change? When did it become NECESSARY to take 5-7 AP classes to have a competitive college application? I am not a Pollyanna but think it is sad that high school has become a pressure cooker instead of the stepping stone into adulthood that it once was.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kids take AP classes to up their GPA so they can get into college. On all of the college tours DD and I have attended so far, all of the admissions counselors say they like to see a rigorous course schedule, AP, IB, etc.. it's almost a necessity to get into many schools.
But this isn't really true. Most colleges will calculate your unweighted GPA and use that to determine if students make the cut for admission. My DD tracks her GPA as weighted and unweighted.
Yeah but the most elite colleges want to see the most rigorous courses available and done well.
No one forces kids to take AP, IB etc. but if if they want to go to HYP or equivalent from this area, it is what it is.
But it is a choice. If your kid does not want to work their tail off and don't aim for the ivies, they don't have to do this.
OP here. My point is that it hasn't always been this way. At what point did it change? When did it become NECESSARY to take 5-7 AP classes to have a competitive college application? I am not a Pollyanna but think it is sad that high school has become a pressure cooker instead of the stepping stone into adulthood that it once was.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kids take AP classes to up their GPA so they can get into college. On all of the college tours DD and I have attended so far, all of the admissions counselors say they like to see a rigorous course schedule, AP, IB, etc.. it's almost a necessity to get into many schools.
But this isn't really true. Most colleges will calculate your unweighted GPA and use that to determine if students make the cut for admission. My DD tracks her GPA as weighted and unweighted.
Yeah but the most elite colleges want to see the most rigorous courses available and done well.
No one forces kids to take AP, IB etc. but if if they want to go to HYP or equivalent from this area, it is what it is.
But it is a choice. If your kid does not want to work their tail off and don't aim for the ivies, they don't have to do this.
OP here. My point is that it hasn't always been this way. At what point did it change? When did it become NECESSARY to take 5-7 AP classes to have a competitive college application? I am not a Pollyanna but think it is sad that high school has become a pressure cooker instead of the stepping stone into adulthood that it once was.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Kids take AP classes to up their GPA so they can get into college. On all of the college tours DD and I have attended so far, all of the admissions counselors say they like to see a rigorous course schedule, AP, IB, etc.. it's almost a necessity to get into many schools.
But this isn't really true. Most colleges will calculate your unweighted GPA and use that to determine if students make the cut for admission. My DD tracks her GPA as weighted and unweighted.
Yeah but the most elite colleges want to see the most rigorous courses available and done well.
No one forces kids to take AP, IB etc. but if if they want to go to HYP or equivalent from this area, it is what it is.
But it is a choice. If your kid does not want to work their tail off and don't aim for the ivies, they don't have to do this.