I really like this site, it is support for men involved with abusive women: http://shrink4men.com/

I was in a relationship where the woman frequently punched me in the face after drinking for "thinking that I looked at another woman". I let it go a few times but then I realized that in addition to straight up abuse she also knew that I couldn't and wouldn't hit her back because any guy worth anything would never hit a woman. Just get away from her. As others have said men can be physically abused and many are as reluctant as abused women to "fight back" but for very different reasons. If we do, we go to jail. Guess equal rights takes back seat in this situation - much like child custody. Just sayin'

Ditch her and don't ever look back. There are plenty of people who manage to get through the stress of life without hitting their spouse. She's a fucking pussy, and throws tantrums like a toddler. Divorce her and stop waiting around. If she hasn't grown up by now, it isn't going to happen.

The National Domestic Violence Hotline

1-800-799-7233

http://www.thehotline.org/

Please call TODAY.

No. No. No.
Never attend marital counseling with an abuser.
Never.

OP could benefit from indivdiual therapy.

She is abusive OP. No doubt about it.

One of these days you will reach your anger threshold and retaliate back, then it will be a "He said...She said" type of situation and you risk being prosecuted.

Simply take a break from each other. Now.

And I advise marital counseling for both of you as well as getting her evaluated for clinical depression.

It's not acceptable to hit, ever. Just because she's a woman does not give her a pass.

You asked what happens when you have kids with her. Well, you get to watch her beat your kids, too.

Don't do it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You again?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/493682.page#7444247

No, sorry. I'm the you again guy. I divorced my f**king bitch. Got the kids too, and she has to pay me child support too. That's what you get for bad behavior.

In 3 months time that's amazing/.

+1

Really, PP?

No one gets a divorce in 3 months time with minor kids involved. Trust me, I tried. Even with my then-husband's mental health records and a sympathetic police report, it still took a full year (and he still got joint legal custody)

Anonymous wrote:I love my wife but she has a temper. Not abusive I don't think.. But she has moments of rage where she will slap me in the face, throw things,scratch , bite even pull my hair. She says the most hurtful things she knows I'm insecure about. And then she will say sorry and be her normal self.

I'm tired of explaining the marks. And I don't know how to help her.

OP, I am a woman. I grew up in a household where there was physical spousal abuse. I left my husband because he threatened me when I was pregnant. I know abuse when I hear it described. You are being abused.

Your wife might have a mental health condition (my ex-husband did), but that's not an excuse for her behavior.

Get safe and get help for yourself first.

This is such BPD behavior. Lemme guess, she's hot and crazy in the sack. Get out NOW and DO NOT procreate with this creature. It only gets worse.