Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
It is depressing! If full pay parents all started looking for the cheapest options then the colleges may stop charging absurd amounts. They charge $65000 a year because they can. If half their students keep paying the price tag then why stop?
I think you have it backwards. 25% of us pay the $65k so that 75% of the rest get aid.
New poster here. That was my understanding. All my friends who sent their kids off to college this year said the private schools offered aid down to about the cost of instate public schools. Most of my friends are paying about $25,000-ish for small private schools out of state. They have HHI under $200,000, if that's the deciding factor. So I'm curious about the HHIs of those posters who are paying full freight.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
It is depressing! If full pay parents all started looking for the cheapest options then the colleges may stop charging absurd amounts. They charge $65000 a year because they can. If half their students keep paying the price tag then why stop?
I think you have it backwards. 25% of us pay the $65k so that 75% of the rest get aid.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Total cost at her OOS Catholic college- $48,000
minus merit aid - $14000
Paying $34K out of pocket.
She probably could have gotten into some "higher ranked" schools but we knew we absolutely could not do 50/60K or more a year so we focused our efforts on schools that gave merit aid. And state schools, but she didn't really like any of VA's options except William and Mary which she was rejected from.
As a Maryland parent, it kills me when I hear Virginia students say they just don't like the Virginia colleges. I wish we had in-state choices like yours. That said, I know it must kill you, too!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
It is depressing! If full pay parents all started looking for the cheapest options then the colleges may stop charging absurd amounts. They charge $65000 a year because they can. If half their students keep paying the price tag then why stop?
Anonymous wrote:Freshman in-state at William and Mary - no financial aid - first semester payment (tuition + housing + meal plan) was just over $15,000.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
It is depressing! If full pay parents all started looking for the cheapest options then the colleges may stop charging absurd amounts. They charge $65000 a year because they can. If half their students keep paying the price tag then why stop?
I think you have it backwards. 25% of us pay the $65k so that 75% of the rest get aid.
Anonymous wrote:We told DD that we would fund 75% of the cost of an in-state tuition and she could fund 25% through student loans that do not exceed federal maximum. We felt that amount kept her student loan burden at a manageable level.
If she wanted to have out of state public or private colleges as options she needed to bring grades / scholarships to the table that augmented the above sources. She is not the most studious, so she stayed with the in-state option, and I think its been a good fit. Do what you can afford. If you can afford 62k, more power to you. We felt we could not and given her academics we didn't think it would measurably change her college experience either.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
It is depressing! If full pay parents all started looking for the cheapest options then the colleges may stop charging absurd amounts. They charge $65000 a year because they can. If half their students keep paying the price tag then why stop?
Anonymous wrote:Ugh. This is a very depressing post. It's ridiculous the cost of higher education!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Total cost at her OOS Catholic college- $48,000
minus merit aid - $14000
Paying $34K out of pocket.
She probably could have gotten into some "higher ranked" schools but we knew we absolutely could not do 50/60K or more a year so we focused our efforts on schools that gave merit aid. And state schools, but she didn't really like any of VA's options except William and Mary which she was rejected from.
As a Maryland parent, it kills me when I hear Virginia students say they just don't like the Virginia colleges. I wish we had in-state choices like yours. That said, I know it must kill you, too!