Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 18:27     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:Both...but more chemistry. I can feel his presence.


Does he get intimidated when he gets close to you or does he keep his confidence?
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 18:13     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:Honestly...I feel like I came to my senses over the weekend. I am going to avoid him as much as possible, and if I feel weak, I will switch locations.


If it helps I heard he picks his nose while driving
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 18:09     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Honestly...I feel like I came to my senses over the weekend. I am going to avoid him as much as possible, and if I feel weak, I will switch locations.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 18:07     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:Both...but more chemistry. I can feel his presence.



I probably shouldn't have asked you to describe him. OP I can tell you're probably attractive, smart, and a good wife. Honestly, you should probably change gyms before you do something you'll always regret.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 17:53     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Both...but more chemistry. I can feel his presence.

Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 17:52     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:OP.

Happy to oblige. Dark hair, green penetrating eyes, strong brow, broad shoulders feeding into narrow waist. Tall. But beyond that...his confidence in looking at me in a way that is non-offensive but still makes me feel like I am wearing no clothes. Usually any kind of leering or staring creeps me out. Hard to explain that his unique way. But there it is. Great...now you have me thinking about him again.

I am determined to let it go though because I know it is not right...but it sure would be fun to be wrong with him. Hoping if I avoid eye contact I might be able to have him give up on me.

Are you attracted by his look, or is it more chemistry?
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 17:51     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:OP.

Happy to oblige. Dark hair, green penetrating eyes, strong brow, broad shoulders feeding into narrow waist. Tall. But beyond that...his confidence in looking at me in a way that is non-offensive but still makes me feel like I am wearing no clothes. Usually any kind of leering or staring creeps me out. Hard to explain that his unique way. But there it is. Great...now you have me thinking about him again.

I am determined to let it go though because I know it is not right...but it sure would be fun to be wrong with him. Hoping if I avoid eye contact I might be able to have him give up on me.


It's best that you don't engage him at all if you don't want it to go any farther. I had a fling with the hot guy at the gym and it started about the same way that you're describing.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 17:44     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
OP.

Happy to oblige. Dark hair, green penetrating eyes, strong brow, broad shoulders feeding into narrow waist. Tall. But beyond that...his confidence in looking at me in a way that is non-offensive but still makes me feel like I am wearing no clothes. Usually any kind of leering or staring creeps me out. Hard to explain that his unique way. But there it is. Great...now you have me thinking about him again.

I am determined to let it go though because I know it is not right...but it sure would be fun to be wrong with him. Hoping if I avoid eye contact I might be able to have him give up on me.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 17:13     Subject: Attraction at the gym
OP can you DESCRIBE what's so hot about this guy?
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 15:41     Subject: Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You have to bang him. He could be your soulmate, after all.


This is what I wrote earlier. There is something deeper going on, and you could go through life not knowing if he is truly the one. Or, you can find out.


This is the most infantile rationalization for an affair ever propagated. Seriously - bang this guy to see if he's "the one"? God, that's so incredibly idiotic. Please stop letting daytime television be your guide to living.
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 15:34     Subject: Re:Attraction at the gym
Op here. Yes, he was at the gym this morning but I refused to make eye contact despite him circling. I am hoping he will just get frustrated at the lack of response and find a new target. But it was very hard not to lift my eyes. Trying to be good...
Anonymous
Post 08/18/2015 12:48     Subject: Attraction at the gym
OP - can you give us an update? Have you seen him again?
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2015 11:15     Subject: Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is what your wives are doing at the gym, boys.



Wait wait wait! So my wife comes home in shape AND horny?

Thats a dream come true!



Horny for someone else.


Well she can close her eyes and imagine its him if she wants. it would just be nice to have passionate sex with my wife.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2015 11:11     Subject: Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:What are you, Ms. Spock? Soulmates are often found by eyeing each other at the gym during middle age. OP, you must consummate this relationship. How else will you know?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You have to bang him. He could be your soulmate, after all.


Soul mates are not found. They're made by loving someone enough to take care in meeting their needs over a lifetime.


this is how stupid women get into stupid troubles. what's there to know? op is married right?

op - take cold shower and focus on your dh.
Anonymous
Post 08/17/2015 11:09     Subject: Attraction at the gym
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is what your wives are doing at the gym, boys.



Wait wait wait! So my wife comes home in shape AND horny?

Thats a dream come true!



Horny for someone else.