Anonymous wrote:The PPs bring up a very good point. The thing is that not all poverty is equal, and there are times when family culture and expectations means more than how much money the family has at the moment.
A kid who comes from a family with generational poverty, lots of bad behavior/role model examples and scarcity of good ones with little to no familial expectations is likely to never do well at school.
A kid who is just as poor but comes from a family of recent immigrants with strong family values, importance of education and strong role models around (when the kid can see that hard work leads to success) is a lot more likely to do well at school. This is especially true when parents have at least some level of education and family poverty is mainly due to having to start over in the new country.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids are still in elementary, but we ended up choosing between a neighborhood where the ES was high FARMS but the MS and HS were less so, or a neighborhood where the ES was low FARMS but the MS was much higher.
We chose the high FARMS elementary school on the theory that it would be easier to supplement as necessary, and to keep close tabs on friends, at the earlier grades.
Honestly, it was a good choice. The FARMS kids are poor, but extremely hard-working with super strict parents at home (mostly Ethiopian and Middle Eastern immigrant families), so discipline is no more an issue than at the fancy private preschool that my kids went to before this.
All the middle eastern parents near me are rich, I didn't realize there were poor ones.
Anonymous wrote:My kids are still in elementary, but we ended up choosing between a neighborhood where the ES was high FARMS but the MS and HS were less so, or a neighborhood where the ES was low FARMS but the MS was much higher.
We chose the high FARMS elementary school on the theory that it would be easier to supplement as necessary, and to keep close tabs on friends, at the earlier grades.
Honestly, it was a good choice. The FARMS kids are poor, but extremely hard-working with super strict parents at home (mostly Ethiopian and Middle Eastern immigrant families), so discipline is no more an issue than at the fancy private preschool that my kids went to before this.
Anonymous wrote:My experience - three children, my oldest is now in high school. Elementary, middle and high school are all above 50% FARMS.
Good: in elementary, the class sizes are very small. My oldest only had 14 in first grade. My kids have had several great teachers who had control of the classrooms. Those years, there was differentiation and I felt they were getting a great education. One year, my middle son was pulled out by the reading specialist to get extra help. He was reading way above grade level. This past year, my youngest was pulled out weekly for advanced word study. The two oldest started compacted math in 4th grade (my youngest is not a math kid). In the middle school and high school, my oldest is taking all honors. Almost all of his classmates are strong, motivated learners. I went on a field trip when he was in 8th grade to the Baltimore Science Center. His classmates were very polite, well behaved children. His high school is definitely a school within a school and I'm confident he'll be well prepared for college.
Bad: Most of the children in our neighborhood go to other schools. My children have very few neighborhood friends, because they don't know them. They have very few friends from school. Most of their friends are kids they've met in outside activities and I have to drive them so they can get together. Most years, the elementary school has had very few after school enrichment activities. Some years, we haven't had any. Other years, we might have one or two clubs. We have very few parent volunteers. I think we have a high turnover rate of teachers. I've had a child at the elementary school for 11 years - this year there are only 3 classroom teachers who were there when my oldest started kindergarten.
Would you mind sharing the school system? This sounds like they have their act together.
I teach in a high FARMS elementary school (appr. 95% qualify for free lunch). I can't answer questions about college admissions but I would imagine the HS our school feeds into has fewer AP/IB classes. Many of our students read below grade level. They start out behind and all of their elementary school years is basically playing catch up. Our district has no GT or advanced program until MS and then it is only at a few schools (all of them are far away from my school). In fact, during our re-accreditation, we were marked down for not offering enough enrichment for high achievers. When more than half of the class is below grade level, nearly all of the energy goes toward bringing those students up to grade level. The few students who may be above grade level don't have a peer group. This year, we will have a plan for those students. I would not choose to send my child to a school like mine. The teachers are very strong and experienced but also exhausted by March/April. I think your child would do fine up until middle school when his/her peer group would begin to trump you as parents. None of my students have parents who graduated from a 4 year college. The only people they know who have graduated from college are their teachers. We can talk college up all we want but it's an uphill battle all of the way. Do you want your child to go to college? Do you want them socializing with kids who have no plans to go?
Anonymous wrote:So i've been told that schools with high FARMS rates tend to perform poorly. Excuse my ignorance on this matter, but how does this effect students that are from middle/upper class households? Especially those that come from a home with academic support. Does a school like this hurt them in the long run or does it affect college admissions in any way?
Thanks.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So i've been told that schools with high FARMS rates tend to perform poorly. Excuse my ignorance on this matter, but how does this effect students that are from middle/upper class households? Especially those that come from a home with academic support. Does a school like this hurt them in the long run or does it affect college admissions in any way?
Thanks.
My twins went to a Title I school last year for kindergarten. I found that the education was ok - but mostly a review of what they learned in pre-k at a private daycare. (I figured that would be the case for any kindergarten). What I did not like was what slang they came home with and some of the concepts they were exposed to. I found it very difficult as a parent to impress upon my kids that we speak Standard American English and that is what is appropriate for our family vs. how others speak while trying to make sure they weren't judging others. My last straw was when my 6 year old asked me what sex was because she heard about it from a friend. I figured that would happen eventually - but not in K. This all sounds incredibly elitist - but I don't care. I want my kids to have the best opportunities and be in the best environment possible. The school just didn't cut it.
We're moving to a new school district. They'll be going to a good school that's actually more diverse in terms of ethnicity but less diverse SES.
Anonymous wrote:Interesting discussion. What do people consider "high FARMS rates"?
Anonymous wrote:Interesting discussion. What do people consider "high FARMS rates"?