sure you could add that datapoint but it doesnt beat a randomized study using objective data. but a few cases? those are anecdotes. anecdotes are for losers. large N random studies are for winners.

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How about including situations where a child is raised by two adults who are not gay/lesbian, but who are of the same sex?

For example, how about a grandmother and great aunt? Or how about two uncles? Or two aunts? Should these children be placed with a hetero couple instead of being raised by two people who are the same sex?

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think you need to do such a study. Just ask the children of gay couples once they reach adulthood if they were happy with their given situations and allow them an honest, anonymous way to share their thoughts. Only they can tell us if this works well. If they're happy, functional people, perfect. If they express doubts or say their childhoods lacked something, then maybe they're onto something and their feelings need to be respected.

That's a laughable way to do science. That's like the thread in the relationships page asking if people post hoc regret their divorce. ppl justify things post hoc to rationalize their own experiences. I'm sure if Amy Winehouse came back she'd say "No regrets man".... lol.

So you have no interest in hearing from say a woman raised by two men if she felt an actual need for a mom? What if women raised by only men said they didn't care one way or another if they had a mother.

Sure, some people regret their divorce. Others may say the situation was far from what they ever wanted for themselves. What's wrong with asking someone raised by a gay couple if this would have been their first choice?

In the end, it's a great topic for a book? Researchers and journalists have written books that contain slews of interviews with all sorts of distinct groups that are in situations some of us may not envy- unmarried, childless by choice or by circumstance, etc.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't think you need to do such a study. Just ask the children of gay couples once they reach adulthood if they were happy with their given situations and allow them an honest, anonymous way to share their thoughts. Only they can tell us if this works well. If they're happy, functional people, perfect. If they express doubts or say their childhoods lacked something, then maybe they're onto something and their feelings need to be respected.

That's a laughable way to do science. That's like the thread in the relationships page asking if people post hoc regret their divorce. ppl justify things post hoc to rationalize their own experiences. I'm sure if Amy Winehouse came back she'd say "No regrets man".... lol.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, some serious crickets in this thread.

YES or NO. It's easy. Would you folks support doing a very careful randomized study to answer this question. Either you're pro-science or you're not. Let's let the NIH do it. It's not like I'm calling for the Heritage Foundation to do it.

Oh FFS, stop throwing around terminology like you're some kind of hot shot. No one would ever do a randomized trial study like this. It would be highly unethical for one and too difficult to control for variation as well. Kids available for adoption don't come out of a breeding farm like lab rats.

Anonymous wrote:Wow, some serious crickets in this thread.

YES or NO. It's easy. Would you folks support doing a very careful randomized study to answer this question. Either you're pro-science or you're not. Let's let the NIH do it. It's not like I'm calling for the Heritage Foundation to do it.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, some serious crickets in this thread.

YES or NO. It's easy. Would you folks support doing a very careful randomized study to answer this question. Either you're pro-science or you're not. Let's let the NIH do it. It's not like I'm calling for the Heritage Foundation to do it.

Umm, where are you getting all these adoptable infants from?

Yes. I'd support it. And I'd be confident that it would show that good parenting is down to people and not sexuality. But at that point, I'd expect people like you to stop believing in science and accuse the people running the experiment of pushing a political agenda.

Good for you. And you're wrong about me. I have my priors, but I favor making policy based on rigorous data/science. So, if the NIH did a clean random experiment and found that the children randomly assigned to married gay couples did just as well as the children randomly assigned to heterosexual married couples, I would favor both gay adoption and gay surrogacy parenting. If, on the other hand, the children did far worse with the gay married couples, I'd question why we should take children away from either their mother or father. BTW, I'd say the same thing for surrogacy pregnancies undergone by single mothers too. My point is I want science to guide us on what's best for kids, not ideology.

You make it sound like these children are forcibly taken away from birth parents who want them to be placed with gay families. Do you understand what surrogacy is? And as a PP already pointed out, are you aware of the fact that the vast majority of children adopted by gay families only have the foster care system as an alternative? Foolish policy prescriptions that have no basis in reality are not the hallmark of a scientific mind.

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Anonymous wrote:You don't need to randomly assign babies. All you have to do is to randomly select a large sample of children raised by same sex parents and by heterosexual parents. Account for things like household income and parents' education.

This has been done, actually. Children of gay parents fare slightly better.

There is no experimental research on this question. There are only observational studies. When you read media reports that "gay kids fare better" beware the fine print. The vast majority of these studies use snowball/convenience sampling. They aren't worth the paper they are written on and many of the random sample studies show that gay kids do not do better. Either way it's all junk because they are not experimental studies. They are correlation, not causation.

And as a PP already pointed out, are you aware of the fact that the vast majority of children adopted by gay families only have the foster care system as an alternative? Foolish policy prescriptions that have no basis in reality are not the hallmark of a scientific mind.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, some serious crickets in this thread.

YES or NO. It's easy. Would you folks support doing a very careful randomized study to answer this question. Either you're pro-science or you're not. Let's let the NIH do it. It's not like I'm calling for the Heritage Foundation to do it.

Umm, where are you getting all these adoptable infants from?

Yes. I'd support it. And I'd be confident that it would show that good parenting is down to people and not sexuality. But at that point, I'd expect people like you to stop believing in science and accuse the people running the experiment of pushing a political agenda.

Good for you. And you're wrong about me. I have my priors, but I favor making policy based on rigorous data/science. So, if the NIH did a clean random experiment and found that the children randomly assigned to married gay couples did just as well as the children randomly assigned to heterosexual married couples, I would favor both gay adoption and gay surrogacy parenting. If, on the other hand, the children did far worse with the gay married couples, I'd question why we should take children away from either their mother or father. BTW, I'd say the same thing for surrogacy pregnancies undergone by single mothers too. My point is I want science to guide us on what's best for kids, not ideology.

Anonymous wrote:What does "do better" mean? What are your measurable parameters?
Completion of hs? College? Goa?
Self reported happiness scale?
Job? Income?

Anonymous wrote:I don't think you need to do such a study. Just ask the children of gay couples once they reach adulthood if they were happy with their given situations and allow them an honest, anonymous way to share their thoughts. Only they can tell us if this works well. If they're happy, functional people, perfect. If they express doubts or say their childhoods lacked something, then maybe they're onto something and their feelings need to be respected.

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Anonymous wrote:Wow, some serious crickets in this thread.

YES or NO. It's easy. Would you folks support doing a very careful randomized study to answer this question. Either you're pro-science or you're not. Let's let the NIH do it. It's not like I'm calling for the Heritage Foundation to do it.

Science has already spoken. Two homosexuals can not reproduce using their own bodies. You should take a hint from that.