Anonymous
Post 07/03/2015 20:18     Subject: Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:No, I would not.

My DH was a teen drinker and had a drinking and drug problem and ended up in rehab at age 19 after being kicked out of his first college.

He told me his mother was willing to accept all kinds of excuses from him.

"I was just holding it for a friend."
"I found it."
"I have no idea how it got there."
"Honestly, it's not mine. I don't do drugs or alcohol."
Convoluted tales he would make up, such as the recycling story.

OP, honestly, do you believe that a 16 year old teenage boy is making art of recyclables? C'mon. If you do, give his parents a call and find out. Because I have a hard time believing in such a project, and if it is going on, that his parents allow him to go through the trash and take liquor bottles home for his project. WOULD YOU?????


OP, wise up.


Does he have a friend who makes art from recyclables? It should be pretty easy to determine.



OP here, very surprised to see my thread back up on recent topics.

Yes, he does have a friend who makes recycled art.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2015 20:14     Subject: Would you believe him?


I would believe him.

To a fault, my son doesn't lie. Even when he's done something that warrants a punishment. His father is a liar. DS defines himself against his dad in this way.

As long as he tells me the truth, we just work it out. We agree on a punishment and keep it moving.

DD on the other hand...I hardly believe her when she tells me her name. That girl!
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2015 20:05     Subject: Would you believe him?

The kids are master liars, even the 'good' ones.
Anonymous
Post 07/03/2015 15:00     Subject: Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:No, I would not.

My DH was a teen drinker and had a drinking and drug problem and ended up in rehab at age 19 after being kicked out of his first college.

He told me his mother was willing to accept all kinds of excuses from him.

"I was just holding it for a friend."
"I found it."
"I have no idea how it got there."
"Honestly, it's not mine. I don't do drugs or alcohol."
Convoluted tales he would make up, such as the recycling story.

OP, honestly, do you believe that a 16 year old teenage boy is making art of recyclables? C'mon. If you do, give his parents a call and find out. Because I have a hard time believing in such a project, and if it is going on, that his parents allow him to go through the trash and take liquor bottles home for his project. WOULD YOU?????


OP, wise up.


Does he have a friend who makes art from recyclables? It should be pretty easy to determine.

Anonymous
Post 07/01/2015 23:33     Subject: Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't believe him mostly because I would have come up with an excuse like that!


Me either.
Anonymous
Post 07/01/2015 13:54     Subject: Would you believe him?

Whose the friend who makes the art?
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2015 23:12     Subject: Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:I did point it out and then we checked the liquor cabinet. Vodka tasted like water.


Hmmm...time to start putting epsom salts in the vodka. If your kids get the trots you know they're dipping into the home stash.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2015 21:43     Subject: Would you believe him?

I did point it out and then we checked the liquor cabinet. Vodka tasted like water.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2015 14:06     Subject: Would you believe him?

How well do you know his friends, OP?
I know single parenting is damn hard. Kudos to you for finding the time and energy to be concerned. Our kids need more of that. All of them.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2015 13:50     Subject: Re:Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:I would believe him.

Applejack is a brandy. It's 80 Proof, 40% alcohol. If he drank the bottle, he'd have alcohol poisoning. If he drank half the bottle, he'd have trouble staying upright. It also has a very strong smell. He didn't drink it.

Apart from the fact that it would be odd to leave it on the counter. Just talk to him, reiterate why you were concerned, and believe him. I have a teen boy who doesn't drink. And no, I'm not just being naïve. Not all teens drink.


+1

You would know if he drank half a bottle of Applejack.
Anonymous
Post 06/30/2015 11:49     Subject: Re:Would you believe him?

I would believe him.

Applejack is a brandy. It's 80 Proof, 40% alcohol. If he drank the bottle, he'd have alcohol poisoning. If he drank half the bottle, he'd have trouble staying upright. It also has a very strong smell. He didn't drink it.


Apart from the fact that it would be odd to leave it on the counter. Just talk to him, reiterate why you were concerned, and believe him. I have a teen boy who doesn't drink. And no, I'm not just being naïve. Not all teens drink.
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2015 18:37     Subject: Would you believe him?

Anonymous wrote:If you believe him you're stupid. Was over a friends on a cold winter night and noticed his teen son and friends kept going outside. He told me that they were listening to "objectionable rap music" and wanted to play it outside. LMAO.

They were so stoned they almost couldn't breath.

Please tell me you couldn't help but point this out
Anonymous
Post 06/29/2015 17:43     Subject: Would you believe him?

If you believe him you're stupid. Was over a friends on a cold winter night and noticed his teen son and friends kept going outside. He told me that they were listening to "objectionable rap music" and wanted to play it outside. LMAO.

They were so stoned they almost couldn't breath.