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Anonymous wrote:What do guys do when their male friends are cheating on their wives with multiple women?

Guy here: generally speaking, you wouldn't rat out your friend under most circumstances. In general, men place a very high premium on loyalty in their friendships. While I would not participate in actively concealing an affair or providing a false alibi, I personally would keep my mouth shut. It would get messy if I were friends with both spouses, however, as if I learned my friend's spouse was cheating I would feel obligated to tell.

Having said that, in most circumstances guys would try to avoid having anyone else know about their affairs, including their male friends. There really is no upside, and potential downside.

Men stick together. What else is new?

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Anonymous wrote:Is it possible she's have psychiatric issues? A friend of mine went on antidepressants and became extremely disinhibited. She didn't tell us until after it was all over-and was very embarrassed. It was really bad, she did some crazy stuff (and I am not easily shocked) which was then revealed very publicly. Now she is back to her regular self.

If you consider her a friend, I think this is a case where you should say something stern to her about her behavior.

Did you stay friends?

Yes, we've stayed friends. She made bad choices because she was sick. I couldn't be friends with someone who just went around hurting people and didn't care, but the situation with my friend was not like that.

This is OP. My friend I am talking about had some psychological issues in the past. She was bulimic in undergrad and later in professional life she was on antidepressants because of long work hours. Eventually she became SATM and got off the pills. Other than that she has a very sweet, stable personality.

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Anonymous wrote:What do guys do when their male friends are cheating on their wives with multiple women?

Guy here: generally speaking, you wouldn't rat out your friend under most circumstances. In general, men place a very high premium on loyalty in their friendships. While I would not participate in actively concealing an affair or providing a false alibi, I personally would keep my mouth shut. It would get messy if I were friends with both spouses, however, as if I learned my friend's spouse was cheating I would feel obligated to tell.

Having said that, in most circumstances guys would try to avoid having anyone else know about their affairs, including their male friends. There really is no upside, and potential downside.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible she's have psychiatric issues? A friend of mine went on antidepressants and became extremely disinhibited. She didn't tell us until after it was all over-and was very embarrassed. It was really bad, she did some crazy stuff (and I am not easily shocked) which was then revealed very publicly. Now she is back to her regular self.

If you consider her a friend, I think this is a case where you should say something stern to her about her behavior.

Did you stay friends?

Yes, we've stayed friends. She made bad choices because she was sick. I couldn't be friends with someone who just went around hurting people and didn't care, but the situation with my friend was not like that.

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Anonymous wrote:Is it possible she's have psychiatric issues? A friend of mine went on antidepressants and became extremely disinhibited. She didn't tell us until after it was all over-and was very embarrassed. It was really bad, she did some crazy stuff (and I am not easily shocked) which was then revealed very publicly. Now she is back to her regular self.

If you consider her a friend, I think this is a case where you should say something stern to her about her behavior.

Did you stay friends?

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible she's have psychiatric issues? A friend of mine went on antidepressants and became extremely disinhibited. She didn't tell us until after it was all over-and was very embarrassed. It was really bad, she did some crazy stuff (and I am not easily shocked) which was then revealed very publicly. Now she is back to her regular self.

If you consider her a friend, I think this is a case where you should say something stern to her about her behavior.

Anonymous wrote:Do you live near whore island

Anonymous wrote:Any chance they have an open marriage or a "don't ask don't tell" thing going on? Maybe her husband gets turned on by her sleeping with other men. Weird dynamic but a friend of mine feels that way about his wife.

Anonymous wrote:If she's married, why is she 'after' men with money to cheat with? Is her husband not going to notice and question a new expensive handbag or piece of jewelry if they buy her one? Or is her endgame to eventually find someone richer to leave her husband for?

Anonymous wrote:What do guys do when their male friends are cheating on their wives with multiple women?

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Anonymous wrote:While it's awful what she is doing to her husband, I also feel bad for her. She must have some deep rooted issues that are causing her to act out like this. She is going to be left lonely and even more unhappy than she already is.

Do you know what is going on in their marriage? I ask because I have a friend that when you see her and her husband you think they are a great couple. Behind closed doors he bullies her and has even struck her a few times.

I wouldn't talk to the husband, but if she is a friend of yours, I would talk to her and ask her what she is doing and what is causing her to do it. Maybe by helping your friend, you can get to the heart of the matter.

This is what happened to me, i got flat out told i was unemployable.

Anonymous wrote:While it's awful what she is doing to her husband, I also feel bad for her. She must have some deep rooted issues that are causing her to act out like this. She is going to be left lonely and even more unhappy than she already is.

Do you know what is going on in their marriage? I ask because I have a friend that when you see her and her husband you think they are a great couple. Behind closed doors he bullies her and has even struck her a few times.

I wouldn't talk to the husband, but if she is a friend of yours, I would talk to her and ask her what she is doing and what is causing her to do it. Maybe by helping your friend, you can get to the heart of the matter.