Anonymous
Post 06/01/2015 06:16     Subject: Re:Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
Sometimes siblings just want time together.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2015 23:01     Subject: Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
Anonymous wrote:My SIL is in town and texted DH about meeting for brunch tomorrow and then said can it just you, no "me". I was excited to see her and am confused why I'm being excluded. I told DH its fine for him to go as I want one of us at least to be able to visit with her. But I think its kinda crappy that I'm not allowed to go. Is it okay to be a little hurt by this or no?


Please grow up. There could be 1000 reasons why she wants to have lunch alone with her brother, that have NOTHING to do with you. This seems like one of those situations where you are looking for reasons to be offended. And you told him it was fine to go? How generous to allow him to go to lunch with his sister without you.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2015 22:57     Subject: Re:Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
Is part if the issue that she is visiting, that you had made plane to have brunch all together( or at least not bring earned it was only a bro/sis thing), and then she announced you were disinvited the day before ? I'd find that rude. But nothing bad about their wanting time together without anyone else around.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2015 22:41     Subject: Re:Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
I LOVE time with my brother without his wife. I get annoyed that some people seem to think that because I'm a woman and she's a woman somehow we have a great bond. He's my brother, for pete's sake. Sometimes I want to see him and have it be just him and me. I think the PP is correct that you'd probably understand it better if it were his brother.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2015 21:07     Subject: Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
Your DH was rude to tell you. It's fine for siblings to have private time.

If I had to get my SIL's permission every time I spent time with my brother, I would really resent her. Get over yourself.
Anonymous
Post 05/31/2015 14:26     Subject: Feelings hurt about SIL saying no me for brunch
Maybe she just needs to talk to her brother. Don't te it personally.