Anonymous wrote:Younger women are more sexually adventurous. They grew up in the age of highly accessible internet pron and have a broader view of what's normal in the bedroom. Add raging hormones, youthful looks, a less complex relationship and you have the solution for what was broken in their previous marriage.

This exactly. +1000

Anonymous wrote:It's music fest dude. Quality 20 year olds don't date or marry sugar daddies. Have fun at the musical festival anyway.

A dude is a coboy who lives on a ranch. I'm pretty sure the previous poster is not a dude.

Anonymous wrote:Why is it that when men remarry, it is with much younger women?

Same reason Titan orbits Saturn once every 15 days and 22 hours...


Because.

It's music fest dude. Quality 20 year olds don't date or marry sugar daddies. Have fun at the musical festival anyway.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Youth and fertility.

2. BECAUSE THEY CAN!

People say fertility but every older man I know who has hooked up with a young woman to have kids struggles in the dad department. Little kids are not easy to deal with at age 40+ because your energy just isn't the same. I think it's more of an ego boost for some men than about fertility.

(shrug) I'm in my 40s, I have little kids now, and I have all the energy I need.

I also have a lot more patience than I did 10 or 15 years ago.

But but but....

are you always up for sex. nasty, brutish, hot sex? with blow jobs to completion. swallowing? wearing thong panties on a tuesday. giving head on more than just "special occasions." Waxing down there. Always wearing heels with your man when you go out on the crowd. The younger generation like PP noted came of age in a less encumbered environment. If and older husband wasn't getting a hot sex life, he's sure to grab one of these young things for round #2. Just look at how these younger gals dress at musical festivals.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because they can!

Because each person is offering different items of value - older man = maturity, stability, likely financially good. Younger woman is offering fertility, attractiveness. It's a transaction, quid pro quo.

A marriage should be about equal partners in a relationship. If a woman's only value is her looks and women on here think that is what a second wife brings to the relationship think about what that says. Men marry only for looks, but in the workforce men are supposed to treat women as equals and don't get me started about domestic abuse etc. it's 2015, women's value should be based on more than their looks.

Why are looks a less legitimate way of bringing value to a marriage than, say, the ability to prepare a kick-ass spreadsheet?

Are you raising your daughters to think that looks are the only thing of value they can bring to a marriage. I hope my son doesn't end up with your superficial daughter.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Youth and fertility.

2. BECAUSE THEY CAN!

People say fertility but every older man I know who has hooked up with a young woman to have kids struggles in the dad department. Little kids are not easy to deal with at age 40+ because your energy just isn't the same. I think it's more of an ego boost for some men than about fertility.

(shrug) I'm in my 40s, I have little kids now, and I have all the energy I need.

I also have a lot more patience than I did 10 or 15 years ago.

Younger women are more sexually adventurous. They grew up in the age of highly accessible internet pron and have a broader view of what's normal in the bedroom. Add raging hormones, youthful looks, a less complex relationship and you have the solution for what was broken in their previous marriage.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Youth and fertility.

2. BECAUSE THEY CAN!

People say fertility but every older man I know who has hooked up with a young woman to have kids struggles in the dad department. Little kids are not easy to deal with at age 40+ because your energy just isn't the same. I think it's more of an ego boost for some men than about fertility.

Fertility is a euphemism for pert young bodies that are far away from menopause (sex decline time)
Same way "established" is a euphemism for "my man makes enough dough-ray-me to let me be a SAHM with a 5,000 dollar treadmill"

Anonymous wrote:1. Youth and fertility.

2. BECAUSE THEY CAN!

People say fertility but every older man I know who has hooked up with a young woman to have kids struggles in the dad department. Little kids are not easy to deal with at age 40+ because your energy just isn't the same. I think it's more of an ego boost for some men than about fertility.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because they can!

Because each person is offering different items of value - older man = maturity, stability, likely financially good. Younger woman is offering fertility, attractiveness. It's a transaction, quid pro quo.

A marriage should be about equal partners in a relationship. If a woman's only value is her looks and women on here think that is what a second wife brings to the relationship think about what that says. Men marry only for looks, but in the workforce men are supposed to treat women as equals and don't get me started about domestic abuse etc. it's 2015, women's value should be based on more than their looks.

Why are looks a less legitimate way of bringing value to a marriage than, say, the ability to prepare a kick-ass spreadsheet?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because they can!

Because each person is offering different items of value - older man = maturity, stability, likely financially good. Younger woman is offering fertility, attractiveness. It's a transaction, quid pro quo.

A marriage should be about equal partners in a relationship. If a woman's only value is her looks and women on here think that is what a second wife brings to the relationship think about what that says. Men marry only for looks, but in the workforce men are supposed to treat women as equals and don't get me started about domestic abuse etc. it's 2015, women's value should be based on more than their looks.

Yeah that thing called biology still trumps all in 2015. Shocking, I know. Maybe Darwin should have fixed this.

Are any of the second wives posted here a stepmom to the hubbies kids with his ex?

Anonymous wrote:Because they can!

Because each person is offering different items of value - older man = maturity, stability, likely financially good. Younger woman is offering fertility, attractiveness. It's a transaction, quid pro quo.

A marriage should be about equal partners in a relationship. If a woman's only value is her looks and women on here think that is what a second wife brings to the relationship think about what that says. Men marry only for looks, but in the workforce men are supposed to treat women as equals and don't get me started about domestic abuse etc. it's 2015, women's value should be based on more than their looks.

Anonymous wrote:Second wife here. 7 years younger. I'm thin, fit and have a great career . . . love the age difference.

Yep! my last GF was 15 years younger... the current one is 20 years younger. Both thin, fit and had great attitudes.