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Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

I'm sorry, but if you love talking, spending time and having sex with this woman, why wouldn't you commit? You're not a young man anymore. The both of you men were complimentary until the whole commitment thing. How do you think these women will feel when you dump them after years together? You're users.

I'm 49, my SO is 42, we've been together for five years and our commitment is for life. He's happy to have an intelligent, sexual older lady and isn't so shallow to want a younger lady long term. I suppose I just got lucky.

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Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.

Anonymous wrote:Why do I feel like OP is....not that physically attractive himself?

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Anonymous wrote:43 y.o. divorced guy here - dated "younger " and "older" women for the last 2 years and have found the "older" women are hands down so much sexier and hotter than the younger 30 year olds.

The confidence more mature women have is one attribute that I value highly. I have also found that older women are much more comfortable with their bodies and in general, are much more open to new things in the bedroom. They can actually have real conversations and if you are an intelligent, cosmopolitan guy, you can find so many more things with which you can connect with a woman - and you know that if you connect via brain, your cock can connect with her pussy.

as for women hitting their peak external attractiveness in their 20s, well, no doubt I love a finely toned ass in yoga pants but I find "older" women so much more physically attractive - and they know how to wear that sexiness and sensuality comfortably and confidently.

so thanks for your post - and leave the "older" women to guys like me.

I do not understand the vitriol and bitterness. The OP was complimentary to older women, and IMO dead on.

I have been involved with a woman is 12 years older than for 2 years now. Obviously her physical attractiveness is not the same as it was when she was younger (she is 63) or that of younger women. But I think she is beautiful and she works hard to keep fit. She is very open sexually and enjoys it very much. Internally she is gorgeous and I love talking with her and spending time with her. However, I would not marry her or have a serious commitment for the same reasons as elucidated by the OP. I think woman I am with understands this deep down.